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joykrodriguezphoto Greetings and Salutations One and All! I am pleased to announce a special show of Illuminations of Light LIVE! This coming Wednesday Night, 9pm MDT We are pleased and honored to introduce Dr. Joy Kamakamaewailani Rodriguez, Ph.D. ! She is an amazingly gentle spirit and we are honored to welcome her to the show! 

Dr. Joy Kamakamaewailani Rodriguez, Ph.D. (Natural Health), was born in England, but has called Hawaii home for over 27 years now. Just back from “wowing” others in Beijing, China, Joy is currently, embarking on a once-in-a-lifetime 50-State Book Tour. She is, not only an Author, but a Life Passion Coach, Speaker, Licensed Massage Therapist, and also, an Advanced “Law Of Attraction” Certified Practitioner.She completed Bodywork training at: Holistic Centers Hawaii, Hawaii Healing Arts College and Hands Towards Heaven. She has taught and still teaches Hawaiian Spirituality (Ho`oponopono and Huna); while, practicing bodywork and energy modalities like: Reiki, Reflexology, Swedish, Pranic Healing, Shiatsu, Deep Tissue, Lomilomi, and Hot Stone Therapies, for over 15 years.
She is a member of Toastmasters International and The Council On Native Hawaiian Advancement (CNHA). She is the Author of “Your Life Passions: 7 Spiritual Huna Principles For Abundance” and 2 other books, “Integrity Dialogues”, “SpaThenticity”, and a co-author alongside Dr. Joe Vitale (of The Secret) in the recently released “Ready, Aim, Inspire” Book Series.

In our interview this week we will be discussing the 7 Principals of Huna:

Learn To Follow Your “Bliss”, Using These 7 Huna Principles:

  1. `IKE: The World Is What You Think It Is.
  2. KALA: Release and Forgive (Ho`oponopono).
  3. MAKIA: Energy Flows Where Attention Goes.
  4. MANAWA: Now Is The Moment Of Power.
  5. ALOHA: To Love Is To Be Happy.
  6. MANA: All Power Comes From Within.
  7. PONO: Truth, Integrity.

We will also be discussing the true meaning of “ALOHA” 

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The spirit of Aloha was an important lesson taught to the children of the past because it was about the world of which they were a part. One early teaching goes like this:

Aloha is being a part of all, and all being a part of me. When there is pain – it is my pain. When there is joy – it is also mine. I respect all that is as part of the Creator and part of me. I will not willfully harm anyone or anything. When food is needed I will take only my need and explain why it is being taken. The earth, the sky, the sea are mine to care for, to cherish and to protect. This is Hawaiian – this is Aloha!

As the child grew, the need for a fundamental code of ethics was taught. This code is found within a deeper layer of the meaning of the word Aloha. The code is derived from one of the acronymic meanings of Aloha.

A, ala, watchful, alertness
L, lokahi, working with unity
O, oia’i’o, truthful honesty
H, ha’aha’a, humility
A, ahonui, patient perseverance

The kahuna David Bray interprets this code as “Come forward, be in unity and harmony with your real self, God, and mankind. Be honest, truthful, patient, kind to all life forms, and humble.” He also stated that to the Hawaiian of old, Aloha meant “God in us.”

So far, within Aloha, we have found an explanation of our place in the world and a code of ethics to help us with our interactions in the world. The only thing we are missing is our “prime directive” while we are here, and that too can be found within the root words that make up Aloha.

alo, 1. sharing 2. in the present
oha, joyous affection, joy
ha, life energy, life, breath

Using Hawaiian language grammatical rules, we will translate this literally as “The joyful sharing of life energy in the present” or simply “Joyfully sharing life”.

 

Read the full article @ http://www.huna.org/html/deeper.html

And a direct quote from Dr. Joy’s book, 

YOUR LIFE PASSIONS – 7 SPIRITUAL HUNA PRINCIPLES FOR ABUNDANCE (E-BOOK)

“Aloha is the purest form of joy and happiness that
emanates from just being alive. It is the joy of
existence, an attitude of gratitude, and appreciation of
beauty.
To apply aloha in your life, realize that aloha means
“to love is to be happy with.”  
The more you are at peace with what you pres‐
ently have in your life, the easier it will be to change
it. The more you connect to what your life passions
are, the easier it will be to manifest prosperity using
aloha.
Aloha, though commonly used as a salutation, is
the most famous word in the Hawaiian language, and
like so many other indigenous interpretations, it fre‐
quently contains hidden codes (kaona) and other
meanings.”

Finally we will be discussing “Attitudinal Healing” which is also discussed in her book. 

” Attitudinal Healing
Attitudinal Healing is a self‐healing method
which allows us to remove self‐imposed
blocks like judgments of others and self‐con‐
demnation that we put in the way of exper‐
iencing love, peace, and happiness in our lives.
Forgiveness (Kala) is also echoed throughout one of
my favorite self‐healing methods, “Attitudinal Healing”
(AH). Many of AH’s teachings have helped me fulfill
my own life passions and supported the strategies
found throughout this book. I hope you’ll find these
12 principles (complementing Huna and the Law of
Attraction, in many cases) helpful to you in your own
life’s journey.
The 12 Principles of Attitudinal Healing are:
1. The Essence of Our Being Is Love.
2. Health Is Inner Peace, Healing Is Letting Go
of Fear.
3. Giving and Receiving Are the Same.
4. We Can Let Go of the Past and of the Future.
5. Now Is the Only Time There Is and Each
Instant Is for Giving.
6. We Can Learn To Love Ourselves and Others
7. We Can Become Love Finders Rather Than
Fault‐Finders.
8. We Can Choose and Direct Ourselves To Be
Peaceful Inside Regardless of What Is Hap‐
pening Outside.
9. We Are Students and Teachers to Each Other.
10. We Can Focus on The Whole of Life Rather
Than the Fragments.
11. Since Love Is Eternal, Death Need Not Be
Viewed As Fearful.
12. We Can Always Perceive Others as Either
Extending Love or Giving a Call for Help.
Mahalo Nui Loa (Thank you So Much)
Jerry Jampolsky, Founder, and
Diane Cirincione, Executive Director
Attitudinal Healing International
http://www.ahinternational.org/ah‐projects/forgiveness”

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You are all going to just love Dr. Joy K. Rodriguez and if you cannot join the show live you can always listen to our archives of the show! This show will air, Wednesday July 30, 2014 at 9pm MDT @ blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight and if you wish to learn more about our guest or services and products she offers please visit thelifepassioncompass.com

We do hope that you all can join us and wish for you all much Aloha! Make it a great week! 

In Love and Oneness of Heart,

Kimberly

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Greetings and Salutations! One and All! Today is a beautiful day and the Love/Light energies are running high! The air is full of magic today! Go outside and tell your animal companions thank you for being here with us! We love you! And send out a radiating heartfelt pulse of love out to the universe and all beings. Wrap it in gratitude! Feel the joy and the love coming back into your heart directly from them! Feel their gratitude fill your heart! Then look around you, see the beauty that is our Mother Earth fill your heart, she can transmute any of your fears or negative thoughts and help you find the balance and peace within your being. Thank her. Love her. Then thank Creator and All that exist for their part in your life and the lives of all here. Breath in the Crystalline light the energy that is in the air which feeds all living beings here, Exhale, and release all the stress within your being. A few deep breaths, and you are at peace. Listen, what do you hear? What messages await you? Do you feel better? More refreshed and relaxed? Great! Carry this moment with you as you face the challenges of your day. Share the love. Remember to Love yourself too! Say to yourself, “I am Love!” “I am a great person! I am full of good health and lots of loving energy to share with the world!” “I am fantastic! Life is working things out for my highest good always, and I am grateful it does!”

 

We choose which mood to set our day, I think this is a good way to begin today!

 

There is so much going on in the world today, and so much information coming at us from everywhere each moment, I think it’s important that we remember to take that moment to just breath and be One with everything. I think too that many of you will argue there is just not even that free moment for that but I argue to that, we must make that time happen, like showering or brushing our teeth. We must nurture ourselves, and daily remind ourselves we are loving spiritual beings with limitless opportunity in each day. Since most of us do not get compliments and kudos from the outside world, it’s important that we give OURSELVES those things we need. Hug yourself, tell you that you love you and you are a great person, that everything is going to be alright, you truly only need you. We have been so programmed to think that we are lacking, we lack nothing except that which we perceive. We never lack love or companionship, for we are truly never alone. We never lack for what we need, if we ask and believe, it will usually appear when we need it most.

 

A healthy spirit requires that we feed ourselves on a daily basis. A question was posed to me by a friend recently, “What do you do to add value to yourself as a person everyday?” I argued that the question was subjective to one’s opinion of what is considered valuable to one’s self and you would have to essentially guess what is of value to another person based on their perceived senses of what is valuable in their opinion. But really, does their opinion count when you ask what I do to add value to myself?

 

So I took that question and expanded it in a way and asked myself, “ What am I feeding my being?”

 

I broke this down on the literal level, physical, what am I putting into my body on a daily basis and is this adding to or taking away from my overall energy and vitality level? This led to some alterations in diet adding more of what I felt when I asked my body what is it that you are needing, what it had requested, more leafy greens as one example was an answer I received.

 

I then expanded this idea into what was my environment feeding me? My friends? Television shows? Music and lyrics? Commercials and advertisments?

 

Again in assessing this, I found that there was a lot that was not really feeding me but feeding off of me in terms of energy consumption. So again, I began to adjust things in my life to only have those things which lifted my spirit and made me smile around me.  In doing these things, I found, I was more easily brought back to center and peace, when life and it’s events and people knocked me for a loop. I found that not having to deal with all that other stuff, allowed me to have more time and energy to focus on feeding myself the right ways. More meditation time, more time to process how I felt about things that occurred during the day or ponder solutions to challenges that had come up. It allowed me time to focus on my healing and clearing out my own closets and applying the techniques I have been teaching others for a long time now.

 

Now this is not to say that I stopped helping other people, but what I did do is set boundries and I made time for taking care of me too. Healers often fall into the trap of feeling obligated to work til there is nothing left for themselves. It is I believe very important to not fall into that trap of burnout.

 

When people talk about doing the inner work…..

 

What we are talking about is looking at those things which continue to present themselves in our lives. What is causing us to be fearful? Some say that all things boil down to two emotions, Fear and Love. What old tapes have been played since you were young?

 

For me, abandonment, no love, betrayal, and not being heard were big players in my life, and when I was done looking at them, my final conclusion was I didn’t have to have those things from outside sources. I had to have them for myself. To have the expectations of people to be like me, to think like me or experience and come to the same conclusions about life the same as me were big players as well. The idea that I had control or wanted to have control instead of just allowing things to happen.

 

Taking an honest look at how we feel about things, how we are reacting or responding is usually a reflection of something within ourselves which is not in balance, needs healing and release, or some adjustment in perception. Looking at the past on the levels of observer, what gifts did we receive from that experience. Even the most horrific experiences offer some lesson or gift of knowledge or building block for something we encounter in the future. Such as deeper empathy for one who may go through a similar experience in the future. Had we not walked that path, we would not be able to reach them as a person who had survived and was able to move forward to be there for them at that moment. There is always a silver lining, at times, our pain doesn’t allow us to find that lining, but that too is part of the journey.

I am sure I will come back to this topic more in the future, but for now, I would like to close this message today with this thought. Suffering and pain are increased or decreased by our ability to accept or our need to deny what is. How can you reduce your suffering by allowing yourself to accept what is? What are you not wanting to look at or accept about a person or situation? Your own judgment? Your lack of ability to control? The expectation? These are some of the kinds of questions we ask ourselves when we are doing our inner work. For our thoughts, beliefs and focus, bring to us what we feed ourselves. What we are receiving as input, learning, are we growing or are we holding onto an old way because it’s comfortable but it’s stagnant and still?

 

Be loving to yourself, forgive your trespasses as you forgive others who trespass against you.

 

In Love and Light and Oneness of Heart, Namaste. Kimberly

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Greetings and Salutations One and All! I do hope that this blog finds you all well and happy! Well it’s been quite a week for me lots of obstacles and challenges presented themselves to me! But with each one I give gratitude for the opportunity to grow! This week’s show features an amazing man whom I met through a mutual friend. For almost an hour he and I chatted and he truly is a pioneer in his field. And is breaking ground in some pretty amazing territory with his teachings! So we are truly pleased and honored to bring him to you all tonight on Illuminations of Light LIVE! 8pm PST and 9pm MST on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight! here is a bit more about this amazing man and his work!

About James Strohecker

 

An e-health pioneer and wellness visionary, Strohecker has focused on bringing fundamental wellness principles from the world’s great healing and wellbeing traditions into mainstream cultural awareness for over 30 years.  Currently, his focus is on stimulating the creation of a “Culture of Wellness” in the U.S. and supporting the dissemination of wellness worldwide.

 

CEO and co-founder of HealthWorld Online, he is co-creator of Healthy.net (www.healthy.net), the world’s first Internet network for wellness and alternative medicine, the Wellness Inventory whole-person assessment and life-balance program (www.WellPeople.com) and the Wellness Inventory Coach Certification Training (www.CertifyWellness.com). He is on the faculty for the Wellness Inventory Certification Training, as well as the faculty of the Institute for Life Coach Training.  He also co-founded NPICenter.com, the first business-to-business Internet network for the natural products industry.

 

As founding Vice-President of Future Medicine Publishing,

he served as Executive Editor of the classic and influential work, Alternative Medicine: The Definitive Guide. Co-author

of five books, including Natural Healing for Depression: Solutions from the World’s Great Health Traditions and Practitioners  (Perigee), and has collaborated on over 20 titles in the fields of natural health, human potential, meditation,

yoga and world spiritual traditions. He is also publisher of Healthy Update, a weekly e-newsletter serving over 30,000 subscribers for fifteen years.

 

A Phi Beta Kappa graduate of the University of Tennessee with a degree in cultural anthropology, his interests have taken him from National Geographic-funded archeological expeditions to Mayan ruins in the jungles of Yucatan, to three years of intensive study of meditation, self-inquiry, and yoga in India.

 

Strohecker has served on the numerous boards, including the Board of Trustees of the American University of Complementary Medicine and the Institute of Natural Medicine, the President’s Advisory Council for Bastyr University, as well as serving on numerous advisory boards including Nourish America, Academy for Guided Imagery, the Dove Health Alliance, the National Workforce Health Economics Summit, and the National Wellness, Prevention and Fitness Conference. He is a member of the Transformational Leadership Council of Southern California.

 

He lives in Los Angeles with Nancy, his wife of 22 years.

Contact Info:

James Strohecker

CEO / Co-founder

HealthWorld Online

310-823-9553

jim@healthy.net

 

Here’s another article about John and his work:

From Alternative Medicine a Definitive Guide to the Wellness Inventory – An Interview with Pioneering Entrepreneur Jim Strohecker

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Greetings and Salutations One and All! I do hope the week has been an adventurous one for you all! We have a fantastic show lined up for you this week! I was surfing youtube one day and I came across some of this young ladies entries and was totally blown away by her amazing insight and her tremendous energy and I knew instantaneously she was one to watch! She is an up and coming speaker and teacher and authoress and is currently working to complete her graduate degree in psychology with the intention of working with the whole person and a more holistic approach to her healing! We are proud to be her debut show and I think you all will enjoy her as much as we do! She is dynamic and down to earth and has been there and done that so I hope that you all will be able to join us for what promises to be an outstanding interview this week! 8pm PST , 9pm MST on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight.

Here is a bit more about our guest…..

Paige Bartholomew is a “love-worker” with a mission to help people make the shift into true comfort and peace. She is currently earning her master’s degree in individual, marriage and family therapy at St. Edward’s University in Austin, Texas.  In addition, Paige is specializing in the healing of Trauma through her studies at the Somatic Experiencing Trauma Institute. She has been a devoted student of Sufism for 14 years, where she earned the station of Sufi Master Teacher in the Shadhuliyya Order.  She is a long-time spiritual healer, certified hypnotherapist and passionate writer of healing and spiritual issues.  Paige’s life’s work is about moving toward worldwide awakening and peace through the healing of the individual heart. She currently offers traditional counseling, holistic coaching and spiritual hypnotherapy sessions.

Here are some of her YouTube clips….

 

For more Paige on YouTube visit:

http://www.youtube.com/user/PaigeBartholomew

 

To contact Paige you may write her thru Facebook or her website:

Website:                              www.Paigebartholomew.com

Facebook:                           www.facebook.com/TheRevolutionOfEvolution

 

Don’t miss this terrific gal and this terrific interview tomorrow nite 9pm MST on http://www.blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsofllight!

Love n Light til next time,

Kimberly

 

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Greetings and Salutations One and All!  I do hope that you all had a fantastic weekend! And all you Mothers and Mothers to be enjoyed your day of honor! You are the heart that glues the family! Well…this week we have a very special guest joining us, Marigold Somerset is an internationally acclaimed psychic, medium, medical clairvoyant, remote viewer, spiritual teacher, speaker, and New Thought Author. Business, personal relationships, life direction, physical health and spiritual growth are all covered when working with her total system renewal programs. She uses precise psychic skills for full life readings, future predictions, medical clairvoyance, business resolutions and contacting the other side for clarity, awakening and healing. She also works with many organizations in crime case resolution and prevention. Her client base spreads throughout the US, Europe, South America, Australia and Asia where she also gives seminars and teaches her signature systems of “Spirit Fusion”, “Soul Mission Awakening” and “Remote Viewing with Soul Mechanics.”

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More about Marigold…..

Marigold Somerset is an internationally acclaimed psychic medium, medical clairvoyant, business counselor, remote viewer, spiritual teacher, speaker, and New Thought Author. Business, personal relationships, life direction, physical health and spiritual growth are all covered when working with her total system renewal programs. She offers custom designed treatments in her private sessions for the ultimate in personal transformation. New life approaches are created to address each client’s specific issues and pathways to success. Working with infinite fields of intelligence, she helps people awaken, transform and connect to their ultimate life’s purpose, while also bringing messages from loved ones and insights from the Mystical Masters on the other side. Known as a Soul Mission Specialist she uses her psychic skills as precision tools to investigate the many levels of consciousness which help you resolve issues of mind, body and soul.  As a professional remote viewer, she has been contracted to work with organizations ranging from professionals, corporations and law enforcement agencies for crime case prevention/resolution to countless individuals seeking answers from various forms of divine intelligence. She has helped thousands to unlock the mysteries surrounding problems and challenges of all kinds. Her client base spreads throughout the US, Europe, South America, Australia, and Asia where she teaches workshops and seminars on a variety of topics including  “Accessing Infinite Intelligence”, “Psychic Healing”, “Remote Viewing”, and “Soul Mission Awakening”. A metaphysical diagnostician, Marigold utilizes channeling, past life reviews, body scans, future predictions, pinpointing business and personal solutions to remote viewing people, places and things, and connecting with extraordinary Master Spirit Guides to transmit a truly remarkable form of divine philosophy. As a Spiritual Counselor being unified with Infinite Intelligence for altruistic means is her specialty and an honored task she devotedly shares with you. Look for her upcoming book “Divine Intelligence” about the many ways in which vaster forms of divine assistance connects with us to heal our our consciousness, bodies and soul purposes in our everyday lives.

Marigold’s Comprehensive Services:

PSYCHIC MEDIUMSHIP:
Marigold is both clairvoyant, clairsentient and clairaudient as well as a channel for her extraordinary guides speaking to her from above the astral and causal planes. She communicates clearly with many forms of Divine Intelligence on an inter-dimensional level. She will contact Master teachers, Spirit Guides, Angelic links and your loved ones to bring messages and insights for you. She uses her skills as precision tools to investigate the many levels of consciousness on the physical, mental, astral and causal planes to help you resolve issues of body, mind and soul. These sessions are designed as treatments for the ultimate in transformation. She enlightens her clients with specific information to improve their business, relationships, mental clarity, life direction and physical health as well as bring closure about past or lingering unconscious issues. All of her work carries the intention of intensive healing and is designed for identifying and removing blockages that interfere with advancing in life.

MEDICAL CLAIRVOYANT:
As a Medical Intuitive she performs body scans for diagnostics and creating health programs for renewal and prevention. She helps clients raise their health to new heights by obtaining the information to solve the problem at hand and creating protocols to enhance their overall well being. She also acts as a healer, nutritional consultant and medical reviewer of simple and complex issues of how body, mind and spirit are interacting to inform her clients of how to become healthier, more aware and vital for their life’s purpose.

BUSINESS INTUITIVE:
Business reformation is one of Marigold’s expertises. She can design an entire new business platform from beginning to end while simultaneously restructuring a new personal life for the Ceo to enjoy the process at the same time. Her many clients include Top CEOS, Doctors and Health Field Professionals, Marketing consultants, Entrepreneurs, Engineers, Celebrities in Film and Media, and Designers just to name a few. Her consultations cover varied and extensive territory such as Hiring personnel, Restructuring staff, Clientele Acquisition, Projections and Financial Planning, Investments, Communication Resolution, Product, Inventions, Internet Campaigns, Formulas, Discovery, Geographical Placement, Acquisitions, and troubleshooting countless Emergency issues.

SPIRITUAL COUNSELOR:
So many aspects of our lives remain confusing when unable to be understood from a divine perspective. marigold works with you to clear this confusion, inform your higher awareness of divine truths and lead you to your own spiritual powers. All of her work carries intensive healing qualities by creating treatments for soul, body and mind to encourage perfect alignment with the goal of activating the Soul’s Mission and advancing the client in personal and professional life to the ultimate degree. All of this is possible with the transformational work involved in addressing the spiritual aspect of our being. Awakening spirit within oneself is supported with the utmost care when working with Marigold’s specific methods of clearing mind interference for the sake of spirit to flourish in the heart.

CRIME CASE DETECTIVE:
She has worked with many international organizations in crime case resolution and reforming personnel for efficiency protocols and standards. Her work is seen as not only preemptive relating to future crime prevention, but also as that which can predict current plots to be removed in advance before they are enacted. (All cases are strictly confidential and cannot be discussed publicly at this time.)

We hope that you will join us! If you wish to learn more about Marigold visit her website marigold.tv.

Even if you miss the show you can always catch the replay on our archives at http://www.blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight.

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Greetings and Salutations One and All! We have a fantastic guest this week on Illuminations of Light LIVE! The amazing Carolyn Coleridge! We had the opportunity to meet Carolyn this year at the Conscious Life Expo in Los Angeles, and we were excited to be able to get her on the show! She’s been trained as a psycho therapist and practiced for 15 + years and she is currently working as a healer and soul reader as well as conducting seminars and classes regularly in the Los Angeles area! We are honored to have this terrific lady joining us for tomorrow night’s show.

Here is a bit more about our guest and her backround and some of the work she’s done recently! She will be doing soul readings for our listening audience who calls into the show! So be sure to call in 9pm MST on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight.

In her own words a bit about Intuitive Healing….

Intuitive Soul Healing

Is a healing method of helping clients align their mind, body and spirit.  Our soul is a big part of who we are.  This time on the planet we are being allowed more and more information about who was are as souls and what your divine destiny is.  Through mind, body awareness, I help you to become more connecting to your life and your mission here.  

With intuitive insight, I can see exactly what area you need help with and how to get there. If there is frustation,  Anxiety, Fear, or and inability to accomplish goals and general stagnantion in life, I can help you with SPIRITUAL LIFE COACHING using Universal Laws.

Are you feeling stressed and tired – try a REIKI healing session. It aligns your energy centers that affect you emotions  and energy body. I use specific crystals that help ground your energy and remove stagnant blocks.

Are you in a spiritual desert, feeling disconnected from source not understanding your life purpose. Schedule an appointment for an INTUITIVE Spiritual Consultation. 

I practice THETA HEALING  www.thetahealing.com which is a  method of removng blocks and beliefs that are preventing you from living life to the fullest. I test the beliefs through kinesiology,  I also give life coaching sessions with a spiritual twist working closely with the Law of Attraction.

My Background

Hello and Namaste!  My name is Carolyn and I am an intuitive energy healer and a spiritual counselor. I have been a healer for over 13 years. I was trained at Columbia University in York City as a Clinical social worker,  I now work as a Spiritual counselor under the Universal life church in California.  I have worked in corporate America coaching executives on Wall Street,  for health care organizations, an economic research firm and a film company.

Theta Healing is a spiritual healing method developed by Vianna Stibal.  Through kineseology and spiritual counseling sessions, it helps to remove blocks that are causing you discomfort in your life. 

Theta healing, releases beliefs that are  stored in the core level (beliefs that affect your thoughts)  historical,  – (past lives)  genetic (ancestary), soul  levels -(emcompasses beliefs that are of the soul’s xp      eriences). Miracously a pulling of a maladaptive belief can help you to change your inner belief systems and than change your life’s outcome in the outer world.  Beliefs create your reality.

REIKI –  means universal life force. It is a Japanese healing method, of hands on healing.  It helps you to receive the spiritual energy from the universe by focused intention and the laying on of hands.  The method is relaxing, peaceful, healing and can reduce pain. I include crystal healing for chakra balancing.

INTEGRATED ENERGY THERAPY – IET – Along with Reiki I do integrated energy therapy. This is a method given to Steven Thayer, from the angelic realm. It assists with healing emotions stored in the energy body. it is a gentle touch, like acupressure which clears emotions. I incorporate the Reiki, IET and Pranic Healing modalities and label the session Energy healing.

Spiritual Counseling ~ I work with the Universal laws of the universe and spiritual principles.  I can help relieve stress, trauma, depression and anxiety, by helping you uncover underlying beliefs that no longer serve you. Counseling of your soul is far more healing than counseling your personality.

The Spirit Of Women Entrepreneurs  Book! ~ I wrote a chapter in the book listed above. My chapter is about Honoring Your Spirit.   There are 40 other women authers that wrote about their ability to create their dream work.  It is a great read.  Please order the book  through. www.Amazon.com

Visits From Heaven by Josie Varga

Chapter Entitled : “Healing Hands from Heaven.” A complitation book with about 40 other authors available through www.amazon.com

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Ask for a special price for a Healing and a Reading for an hour and 1/2.  Sessions must be done together for discount to apply.

Clients often will have a combination of Intuitive healing sessions with  spiritual counseling and Theta healing to remove blocks.

Sacred Service – Agape Healing Ministery – The third friday of every month. Healings sessions by donation. Contact me to make sure the event is happening.

Carolyn has been featured on CNN

Carolyn Coleridge at the Conscious Life Expo Oct 2010

We are thrilled and honored to have this amazing lady on the show tomorrow Night! Be sure to tune in on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight! If you can’t be there live, then be sure to listen to the archives at the same URL. Much Love n Light to One and All!

To learn more about our lovely guest! Please visit www.intuitivesoulhealing.com! You can schedule a private session by visiting her homepage! See you at the show!

In Oneness of Heart,

Kimberly




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Greetings and Salutations One and All! We have the most amazing guest this week! Most folks will remember her as the mother to Drew Barrymore in the smash hit ET! She has become one of the most renound motivational speakers on the circuit and has authored several amazing empowering books and is running an acting coaching school, doing public appearances, doing her own webinar series in addition to a radio spot so she is quite the dynamic and phenomenal lady and we are most honored to welcome her as our guest this week! Tuesday night 9pm MST on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight.

So here is a bit more information on this beautiful spirit!

“Love yourself beyond anyone or anything else. Love yourself so much that you can’t do anything that doesn’t make you love yourself more.”

As a much sought after public speaker, Dee has spoken at numerous national and international venues including the Love and Harmony Forum in Tokyo, Japan; The Dillion Lecture Series, Unity Temple, Cornerstone Foundation, and the Kansas Film Commission in Kansas; The Sally Johnson Studio in New York; Spiritworks; The Sierra Madre Womenís Club; Energetic Healing seminars throughout England; and her own healing and teaching seminars throughout the United States. Dee has appeared on every major news and talk show and has been featured on E! True Hollywood Stories, Oprah and The O’Reilly Factor. On a weekly basis, Dee conducts numerous private healing sessions at her office in Woodland Hills, California.

As an author, Dee has written a book devoted to the art of self-healing. She conducts monthly workshops to introduce people to the healing techniques outlined in her book, Conscious Creation.

In addition to her ongoing work with fellow actors as an acting teacher and mentor, Dee devotes all her extra time to her beautiful daughter Gabrielle.

Her latest works include a book she co-authored with Jarrad Hewett, called ” The Big E: Everything is Energy:Unleashing the power of everyday wisdom” and her very latest release, ” Bright Light, Spiritual Lessons From a Life In Acting” Dee Wallace reveals the spiritual principles of an actor’s life that applies to Everyman’s journey of reclaiming self.

Written By: Dee Wallace with John Nelson

More about Dee Wallace:

Dee Wallace majored in Theater and English Education at the University of Kansas and taught a year of high school before heading to New York where she studied with famed acting coach Uta Hagen. Looking for a more intimate, in-the-moment style of acting, she migrated to Los Angeles in the mid 1970s and worked in television. A role on Lou Grant caught the eye of a casting director, which led to a choice part in the movie 10 with Dudley Moore. Her breakthrough film role was as Karen White in The Howling, followed a year later with the huge success of E.T.: The Extraterrestrial. Ms. Wallace continued to work in film and television and her career has spanned four decades with more than 100 film credits, including horror classics The Hills Have Eyes, The Howling, The Frighteners and Cujo.

Her recent television roles include Grey’s Anatomy, Cold Case, Without a Trace, Ghost Whisperer, Saving Grace and Criminal Minds. She has appeared on numerous talk shows over the years, including Oprah, The O’Reilly Factor and Good Morning America. In the 1990s Dee Wallace opened an acting studio following in the footsteps of her coach, Charles Conrad. Her approach of being in the moment, tapping into your knowingness and releasing the idea of any outcome became a bridge for spiritual expansion in both her and her students. This led to a second career as a spiritual teacher, healer and motivational speaker. In this capacity she has appeared at numerous national and international venues, including the Love and Harmony Forum in Tokyo; The Dillion Lecture Series, Unity Temple; and the Kansas Film Commission. In the fall of 2008, Dee Wallace published a book devoted to self-healing entitled Conscious Creation. She has engaged in a publicity program to promote her book including national radio programs, local and regional book signings, with anticipated talk show appearances in Los Angeles and elsewhere. She also conducts monthly workshops in L.A. to introduce people to her healing techniques and Energetic Healing seminars throughout Europe and the United States.

A bit more about the book, Bright Light….

About Bright Light

Like you, Dee Wallace came in as a bright shiny light, and she knew from the beginning that her soul quest was to keep that light shining and share it with others. This was a challenge growing up poor in Kansas amidst all the conflicting religious and social messages of her upbringing. But she stuck to this strong intent and followed her knowingness in a meteoric rise as an actress, becoming an acting icon after only five years with the success of E.T., and then faltering and losing her way only to reclaim the power of that knowingness later in life.

Bright Light works as an autobiographical tale of an actor’s life and craft, and how that journey applies to everyone’s spiritual journey. It is the story of Everyman: the reclaiming of Self. Each chapter of Dee Wallace’s story is characterized by a concept like “intention,” in which the narrative becomes an allegorical exploration of its qualities. Dee Wallace has rediscovered the wisdom that we all know but forget: that true success comes from following the heart’s lead, and that the mind only creates form for spirit’s creative manifestation. Our consciousness is our intelligence.

Here is a bit on the co -author

About John Nelson

John Nelson is the author of Starborn, Transformations, Matrix of the Gods, and The Magic Mirror, the 2008 COVR winner for the best New Age book of the year. He is the former editorial director of Bear & Company and Inner Oceans Publishing. In this capacity he has acquired and/or edited such titles as Maya Cosmogenesis 2012, Expanded Medicine Cards, Jean Houston’s Mystical Dogs, and Barbara Marciniak’s Family of Light and The Path of Empowerment. Mr. Nelson is the owner of Bookworks Ltd. and has recently edited such titles as The Sacred Promise by Gary Schwartz, The White House Doctor by Connie Mariano, The 12-Step Buddhist and God is Not Dead by Amit Goswami.

Here are some favorite YouTubes featuring Dee Wallace

This is just a small sample of the amazing talks that Dee has given over the years, her insight will truly blow you away, she comes from a very real place and motivates people to be all they can be.

Do not miss this fantastic opportunity to meet Dee Wallace LIVE! On Illuminations of Light LIVE! 9pm MST this Tuesday Night April 12, 2011 on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight! See you there everyone!

Love n Light in Oneness of Heart,

Kimberly

To reach Dee visit her website at : www.officialdeewallace.com

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Greetings and Salutations One and All! We continue our blog series close up on our Angelic Panelists….Today we focus on Alan Wilks! Alan is an amazing young man, whom I have had the pleasure of knowing for some years now. He is the author of several acclaimed books and two of them are specifically on the angelic realms. So his contributions to this panel will be insightful and interesting no doubt. Here is a bit more about Mr. Alan Wilks!

 


Here’s a few words about who Alan is in his own words….

My name is Alan Wilks born 26th may 1981, in Liverpool England, i am the author of angelic wisdom & Light, Angelic Wisdom & darkness, Valentine of hell and the shadow people, i am also a a 1st dan black belt and previous sensei of shotokan karate and have trained  for almost 24 years. I also have experience in muay thai and Go kan ryu. Martial arts is one of my greatest passions along with writing an illustrating. I have had a few careers in my life i am also a previous pastry chef, have worked in security and hospitality industries. I long to be a full time writer and aim to be able to work  anywhere that may inspire me. I have for many years worked with the angel realms, i believe i was born with the ability to communicate and to see celestial energies, but my greatest awakening would have been perhaps around my 11th birthday, this is where my empathy, and clairvoyance started to really take shape.I have overcome many hardships in my life which has enabled me to draw closer to divine interventions and the angelic realms. After loosing my mother at the age of 22 I had lost a part of my faith, which I later regained due largely to the mentor-ship of Kim, who challenged me to further my ability and understanding. I have witnessed many miraculous healing with the aid of angels and positive energies during prayers or meditations, I continue to spread the word of angels to those who are in need of light or hope. I suppose i have lived my whole life an outsider, somewhat a freak to others seeing what i see on a daily basis, being able to communicate and channel celestial energy is not easy to understand for many, they associate me as a psychic, yet I feel i am somewhat different to the conventional means of a psychic. I consider myself more a spiritual guide for people who may be searching for answers.”

To Reach Alan you can write him directly at SenseiWilks@gmail.com

Or visit his Homepage at  http://www.wix.com/senseiwilks/officialwebsite

 

Alan has grown tremendously over the years and it’s going to be a true pleasure and honor to have him as a part of this show. I know you will love him as much as I do! This Tuesday Night 9pm MST on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight!

Peace all!

Kimberly


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I want to talk to you about accountability and  one of the things that as a being that is working towards evolving and expanding our souls  and becoming a higher vibration being, one of the practices we should practice in our lives consistently is accountability.What do I mean by accountability? Well, the dictionary meaning to be accountable for or have accountability about is: the act of being responsible for or liable for or the act of accepting the  true explanation or the true reason for. This applied to the human experience means to take responsibility for to be liable for your actions. To be willing to own your part in of the explanation of something that took place, the explanation result of something that said or lead someone to believe you did or were going to do.Be willing to stand by your choices and take ownership to your part for something that occurred  or that we said or lead to believe we would be responsible for doing in this dance we call life. In my mind there is one more step that in my opinion should be included once you are willing to acknowledge the responsibility and ownership for your actions and their part in things said and done, that in addition you should be willing to take and to deal with integrity, the consequences ,good or bad,  of those choices and/or actions. This accountability that I speak of is something that should be taken as part of the parameters that should be included when discerning your choices,  We should,also, apply those same parameters that should be considered before we tell others or lead others to believe, we will do, as well. We need to look at and consider,to the best of our ability, the scope of the effects that our choices of what we say and do could have, before following and acting upon those choices. This is, in my mind, what human accountability means.

Now that you know what I mean when I say that as humans we should practice accountability. I would like to share with you some of the far reaching negative effects or affects of when humans do not practice accountability that I have found and how some of these negative results were able to come to fruition and also the negative and sometimes possible lethal consequences of this lack of accountability caused to someone that should not have experienced. Firstly,I want to state that all of us like to be the hero of the story our own and everyone else story too. That really is not going to happen because for each person there is a hero, and they are, every single one of them, competing for that title of “Everybody in the entire universe’s hero”. So the most we can hope for,that is available, is to be a hero of your sphere of reality and that, with effort and diligence and focus can be phenomenal! Having said that, trying to continually and stubbornly trying to always maintain the hero status even when we aren’t saying, acting or doing hero like stuff,  is one of the things we have to help our to keep our ego in check with. This is one of the main challenges along a few others, that we face while we are working at practicing accountability. Another one is that old and big gun of the dark, (drum roll please), fear!!! Well I got a bit off track, back to some examples of what can be a negative result or fallout to innocent bystanders when people do not practice accountability. Here are a few example showing mild to lethal, these are ones that I have either experienced or witnessed myself. The first one is a mild one, the second scenario shows how it could have been much  worse, we’ve all experienced this one, I had mad e an appointment with an appliance repair fellow as my refrigerator had begun to make bad noises on a Friday late afternoon, but I was not made aware of it before it was too late to call for repair, and by Saturday late morning the fridge part had stopped working and that evening the freezer was sinking fast. I called on Saturday and tried to get a repair person, after several tries I got a hold of someone who of course the soonest was Monday morning but he was able to give some info that would save my fridge from being totally fried until then. Monday is rather hectic as it is the day before our show so I am running here and there, but that day I had to rearrange everything to move my out of the house appointments to the late afternoon. So when Monday morning arrived I sat there waiting for the repairperson, they said that they would be there between 8 am and 1 pm, I waited and I waited , nothing. I called the office and left a message at 12:30 pm. I didn’t get a hold of anyone until 1:45 when they informed me that their tech was sick and they had rescheduled me for Friday(which was totally unacceptable it was my fridge for God’s sake!) Just a note here: I wouldn’t have known the appointment had been canceled or changed unless I had called! Now it was simply inconvenient but if I hadn’t by pure luck called another repair person who just happened to have two repairs that had changed their minds and decided to purchase new appliances I wouldn’t have been able to get it fixed until Wednesday afternoon, and I had called every repair place in our yellow pages, by then my fairly new fridge that I got when my mother passed would have too costly to repair and I would have had to buy a new one which I could not afford as I had an important upcoming business 3 day expo thing that I had to attend that was out of town that I had to buy 2 roundtrip airline tickets and hotel for two for three days not to mention car, f ood etc, which was strapping in the first place and I was a month behind in my mortgage at the time (bad financial moment). If I would have had to buy a new fridge, I wouldn’t have made the expo and then I wouldn’t have met the contacts I did, and I would of been short on cash another month not been able to pay my mortgage that month either and I would have never been able to catch up which could instead of  just being one month behind in my house payments, it might have led to loosing my home, and all because the repair person did practice accountability. Now here is a simple lethal example of what could take place:something simple like not calling someone that you won’t be there to pick them so the person is late coming back to work because the person who said they would didn’t,and because the person was late lost their job, and that sent them over the edge and they committed suicide. I know that sounds erxtreme but, you would be surprised how many of those seemi ngly small acts of not practicing accountability have led to those extremes and in some cases probably led to all out war! This lack is not just about phone calls it is also about shifting blame for what you are really responsible for never taking responsibility for the outfall to others or making it about someone else which causes pain distress and even death at times. Remember the butterfly flapping on one side of the world causing disater on the other. Everythoing and everybody are connected and what you do or don’t do what you consider when you make choices effects and affects a way bigger picture than you can imagine, and if you expect others to practice accountability so do you and not just when you feel like it etc. Practicing accountability is not really that hard, and doing that not only saves others from suffering etc. it also helps keep us in check as to what we do and say because we know we are going top be accountable we have a tendency to act and choose with mo re thought and inpeccability, we think, choose,do, speak in a more honest manner especially if we are going to be accountable for what we think,choose,do, or say. When we do things more honestly our vibration aligns with the higher vibrations, and that’s a good thing for everyone.
I would like to make a statement to those that are saying to themselves,”I always take responsibility for my choices and my actions!”.If you do always, I commend you, but I suspect, if you look back there was at some point you didn’t. I just want to remind you that sometimes our scope of acceptance of that responsibility is limited as our ego has narrowed our scope to how big of a picture we are able to see, by convincing us that somehow we are justified in our or exempt from being accountable for ourselves etc. because of judgement of our fellow man as to there worthiness or that you are not accountable because the other person did something to us or others, or that the other person is”bad or evil” or that “they deserve whatever they get, that it’s alright because YOU as well as the general consensuses of “everyone” or the mythical “they” said so, or soc iety has by their opinion has made them less human that they do not nor do the effects on their life deserve to be even considered when we are discerning our choices, our accountability. We as humans, including myself, like our memories at times is selective. By definition if you want to live and act with integrity with impeccability to walk the true path of light, raise and align with the higher vibrational energies, we must act and be and choose to be accountable for our choices and actions no matter what, wether it is easy or comfortable or hard or difficult. To be accountable for your choices and actions of what you think, say, choose and do. It is about what YOU do, not about what others do, have done. To think, choose, act with accountability,that is something that has no exceptions, no gray area. Remember, when it is all said and done, when karma and/or dharma is considered by God and/or the universe, only you will answer for what yo u do, and others will be the only one to answer for what they do. In the end all of us who believe that the soul goes on forever in whatever way your belief system subscribes to, we will be at some point be held accountable for our choices and actions and no one else. So, it serves us best in reality to think, discern, choose, act with accountability to begin with, and of course, compassion, tolerance, love, understanding etc as well, all those positive and light filled high vibration things that make us really human.Love n Light….Petite Lion aka Lianna

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Our Own Petitelion Has Some Wisdom About How To Deal With Loneliness!!!

 By: Lianna Giovannoni

      It is highly improbable that anyone ever would decide to wake up one morning and declare to the universe to God “Let there be loneliness! Please God bless with the miracle of loneliness or ask for loneliness as they wish upon a star! Loneliness is not an item on anybodies “bucket list”( things they want to experience before they die) No loneliness is not one of those things that people find and are willing to die for or take an oath for ,devote their lives to. It is never included in a small child’s silent prayer before bedtime. There are no monuments, walls, plaques, etc. that have been erected in honor of loneliness, no encouraging or patriotic or devoted slogans for loneliness(Give me Loneliness or give me Death!LOL).Loneliness is relegated to stories and poems and those are referred to as tragedies or tragic poems.(Dictionary meaning: a medieval narrative poem or tale typically describing downfall of a someone. or a story,poem or play that ends in some misfortune., a serious drama typically describing a conflict between the protagonist and a superior force (as destiny) and having a sorrowful or disastrous conclusion that elicits pity or terror , the literary genre of tragic dramas, a disastrous event ( calamity misfortune). Yes, there are poems and stories etc. that use lonely or loneliness to describe something like the look of a tree or the sound of bird, like ” the only thing on this remote mountain were just clouds and lonely pines, or the only thing that could be heard in the dark was the lonely call of the owl”. The use of lonely or loneliness as a descriptor is probably one of it’s most positive attributes.

     Loneliness is worse than sad. Sad is an integer to the formula of loneliness, such as sad+(bleakness/desolate/alone)= loneliness or sadness x 2=loneliness….in other words lonely has sad in it. It is a darkness that eats you from the inside out.

     Alone is not lonely…Alone just means that you do not have company. Whereas lonely is an constant ache of absence, one that even if you are surrounded by people you feel isolated, alone, bleak, desolate, imprisoned by some invisible wall. Loneliness lays dormant in everyone of us waiting for the right catalyst to wake it up and begin to thrive and grow. There are an infinite amount of catalysts out there, as many as their are feeling creatures and beings in the universe. No one or no living feeling, thinking, being or creature is immune. Although some seem not to suffer from it’s grip as much but they do not have a complete immunity. I’ve even seen pets express loneliness and sorrow, like when on owner dies or when another of the household animals die or leave. I, personally watched with my pets this , we had a male and a female Siamese cats that were pretty much raised together, and when the slightly older male passed away,the female literally cried, would not eat, and even pulled out big patches of her own fur out. She would go each day for weeks to each of the heat register looking for him (for the last 3 years or so of the male cat Robert had a touch of arthritis and would lay on those to loosen his stiff muscles in the morning or when it was very cold weather) she would look for him and she would see he was not there, she would look up at me with such a sadness in her eyes and in her body language and she would let a sad wail that sounded almost like a young woman crying out in loneliness, despair. It was heart wrenching, she would not let anyone console her or touch her.

     Loneliness can not only come from loosing someone thru death, or absence but from a perception that no one can understand or relate to you or that you don’t fit in for some perceived belief or story that you told yourself that somehow you are different or less than and that no one is there that wants or would desire to share life with you experiencing all of life’s ups and downs, no one to share the joys and sorrows, no one that would or could understand you or would share or care the same opinion as to what you consider significant. That there would no one to make memories with that you can share together later no one to enjoy the little things in life with. Sometimes when there is a loss of a person you life such as a life partner, husband/wife or a best friend that you shared all of those things with for a long time, when they are no longer in your life due to death or a breakup because of that loss and the grief that comes from that it may seem to you that you will never be able to find anyone to fill that space in life the void left from those kinds of loss can create such a deep grief that it creates a wall of despair and an over the top feeling alone. Because of that deep loss because of the grief a very pervasive and unique type of loneliness ensues and nothing or no one will be able to change that sense of aloneness the grief of the loss the darkness the sadness that is gripping you, except for going thru your grieving process and the healing effect of time.

     Loneliness can also awaken and grow when you feel so different from those around you that you convince yourself to believe that there will never be anyone for you. You can experience and create a prison of loneliness when you perceive that an impenetrable barrier exists between you and everyone else due to language and/or cultural differences or you moved to a new area where you don’t know anyone or if you suddenly get ill or disabled or anything that you perceive as a barrier between you and other people.

     First of all like I mentioned before, alone is not lonely. A lot of times, alone is what is preferred,wanted and sometimes what is needed. It is important to be comfortable with your own company and to be confident that you are a complete whole individual rather than feeling that you are not enough or that you are incomplete. Sometimes alone is necessary for your mental and/or physical well being. Alone gives us the best way to get perspective for yourself to gain clarity on life decisions , be alone with your thoughts gives us time to meditate, process things or events, gives the opportunity to quiet the chatter of your conscious mind to reduce stress, connect with your higher self or with the Higher power, to ground yourself,or just to have sometime to not be distracted or influenced by others to just to get to know your true nature without any input from others.

     Back to lonely now….First of all I want to say “YOU ARE NOT YOUR EMOTIONS YOU ARE NOT YOUR STORY! AND ALWAYS BE PRESENT!”. Having made those statements I want you to understand that I will be clarifying those shortly, so just keep them in your mind to the side. It will come together just bear with me thank you. What I am about to say can be applied to any emotional response but we are discussing lonely at the moment so if you find yourself asking the question “what about sad, or anxious just substitute the appropriate word for the word lonely okay? So here goes nothing!! Lonely is an emotion that you tied to the story you told yourself or bought into from someone else that your ego told to respond with to with the current situation that you seem to be experiencing at the present time. If we realize before you respond to the ego’s advice that all the emotions is just a list of emotional responses that you have available to choose from as the emotional response to the situations that you perceive you are experiencing as you move thru each moment in your life. Yes Virginia “YOU CHOOSE WHAT EMOTION YOU WANT TO FEEL in response to your perception of the reality of the situation that you are experiencing ” not the other way around. I know right now most of you are saying to yourself (I can’t help what I feel, I control what I feel they just happen, they just are! Yes, I know it may seem that way, because most of us for most of our lives our ego and all the other egos that you have been around throughout your life from the time of your birth, the ones you learned from and emulated as you were growing up have led you to believe (thru no fault of their own) and reinforced over and over one of the great human untruth list is that “We are at the mercy of our emotions” That they own you, they are calling the shots as to your emotional responses. Well guess what? That is the human ego’s ploy to get you to keep you believing that it is real so it can continue to exist and be in control keep you trapped by fear which creates resistance to soul expansion and to create a prison, to put a barrier to blind you to the truth so to speak and continue to buy into the falsehood, the false perception of the reality of your true nature, to state that plainly… to continue the illusion of “That you are at the mercy of your emotions and the story you tied them to, that you don’t have a choice in the matter”! Now, I’m not saying that people and situations, and old programs that you bought into for one reason or another don’t make it hard to choose a more positive emotional response. Let me just briefly give you a side note to this. I want you to understand that with the aforementioned “old programs that you bought into” It is nobody’s fault that you bought into that there was some wrong doing or error in discernment or that you are “stupid and should have known better!”, that is not it at all. It is just one of those human challenges that all of face so that we learn and grow and evolve. It is built into the system of the human process of growth. No one is exempt, no one has the knack or talent to not buy into old programming, because when you bought into them they were necessary for your survival at the moment but once they are loaded onto your hard drive it is difficult to know when or to remember to delete them. Know this “EVERYONE IS CHALLENGED BY THIS AND HAS THE SAME DIFFICULTY AS YOU IT IS JUST PART OF LIFE!” so “DON’T BEAT YOURSELF UP FOR IT PLEASE”!!!! It is just one of those things that is a standard catalysts for all beings to challenge us to learn and adjust and change things in the present so that we can have the opportunity to expand our souls, evolve as spiritual beings having a human experience. Bottom line,it is just part of life!Just like when we grew to adults from being children the average person’s bones lengthen and grow larger, and in puberty we get hair in places that we didn’t have as children, it is just part of becoming, well so is the program buying into thing. Again you are not your story nor are you your emotions. Anyone who tries to tell you or convince differently ….This is what I have to say to them….QUACK! Yes quack! Check this out, your emotions are yours! Yes folks, those puppies are yours to command! Yes, you too can choose what to feel as a response to stuff! Like I said before things, situations and people may make it more difficult to choose a positive emotional response, but with some effort and practice you can do it. As with anything that you learn, especially when it comes to changing old habits, old programs that we have used forever that really in the present do not serve us anymore it takes a minute to become successful at right away. Be patient with yourself do your best to remember to make the effort to slow yourself down, take a breath and as you do this stop the auto pilot decision making process and stop and take the time to think and ask yourself,”How can I stay in the present and choose a best emotional response for what I am truly experiencing now?…not based on what you responded to a similar story from your past that ego is trying to convince you still are but, on who you truly are from you true nature, from your high self, now in this present moment.With the intent of doing it for the highest good for yourself and the highest good of all. It does get easier as you go along and each time you remember to do this the closer you come to do it effortlessly and with a 100% success rate, and really you will be surprised that it will happen easier and quicker than you think! You may be asking yourself,” well how does this apply to loneliness? ” well, I will tell you. When you sense it creeping in and ego begins it’s existence saving dance running it’s jib in your head, trying to convince you to buy into it’s sales pitch. Take the time to look at the story or thought processes or beliefs behind why you are leaning towards choosing lonely as your emotional response, why this emotion is tied to the story why the ego is trying to convince you that this is the response that you need so desperately(from ego’s perspective) to respond with, why this present situation triggered ego to know it is time to get it’s licks in, why ego needs you to respond this way, what is ego’s motive and how this particular? response helps ego to maintain it’s illusionary existence? Ego is like when you were a kid and you had an imaginary friend that keeps sabotaging and causing trouble and because no one else can see them you get blamed for it’s pervasive behavior. Ego like the imaginary friend is forever trying to convince you that it is real, like Pinocchio before the fairy godmother got to him-he is not real and never will be , he will only able to fool you into thinking it is real and that you are the puppet! Well it is time to take back your throne be the ruler of your reality! It is time to pinch yourself and wake up and see that you aren’t the puppet and ego the puppeteer that you are the master puppeteer and ego is the wooden puppet! You are the creator and the master and ruler of your emotions and ego, they are to do your bidding, they are your subjects and not subject to them! When you are suffering with loneliness or that the situation that you are participating in is one that perhaps the all time best scenario for loneliness to thrive and grow and in the present moment you are not able to see a way out from your current perspective reality, that there could no other choice for you. Stop and without hesitation but with complete faith that no matter what things seem like it is truly an illusion do not believe it for one second!!!!!Tell loneliness to get out of town take a long walk off a short pier, take a hike! Turn and face it and see that it is just an illusion. Find your voice… use your imagination and create for yourself a much better reality for yourself by pulling yourself out of the illusion and create the new true perception of reality in your mind. Realize that emotions and stories come and go. Nothing stays the same, things change all the time, nothing is static. Even if it seems to you that it is the lowest worst moment of loneliness of sadness in the world and that is no way out of it could never ever change…Stop, breath, look at the story behind all of that fear, all the loneliness that you tied to that story, or belief/thoughts that aren’t you , are not in the present not your true nature, just not real and pull yourself out of your illusionary perspective and change your perspective to one that serves you better in this present moment, even if it is to incorporate this thought, It won’t be like this forever it will change because nothing is static. Maybe Close your eyes and hold on to that little bit and release the emotion(loneliness) as the emotional response to the present perspective of the situation . Say out loud if you want or just think it, it works either way, it is your coloring book your crayons, I Release it , let it go – then look at some other more positive way to perceive the situation as to why you are experiencing this based purely in the present moment from your true highest self change it to perhaps as an example: Maybe if I see this as something as this situation isn’t about choosing this to be bad but rather a gift of the opportunity to find a better way see this situation as a plus rather than a negative, an opportunity to gain than a loss, that it is for you not against you. you could change this into you have the opportunity to become a hero and to receive blessings by sacrificing and experiencing a little discomfort so that someone else will get an opportunity to get the chance to expand their soul their skill sets raise their vibration by getting a chance at to allow someone their chance to discern and choose to be compassionate, to recognize that one of their own needs their help , to motivate them to learn to be a better expression of God having a human experience, by motivating them to choose to become a more loving kind person, awaken them to their true nature, more of a true human being and discern and choose love and compassion recognize it is the time to give and transform themselves and receive blessings and grace which raises their vibration which raises the vibration of all humans. For your small sacrifice you not only do you get to be a hero and give someone a chance to receive blessings you get the chance to raise the whole humanity but you get to receive blessings and grace and to raise your self up which also does the same for all. So the point is look how much can be accomplished, look at the scope of the effect of just a small change in the way you choose to see things, change your perception of reality and your emotional response to things. It is so a win win win win situation for such a small amount of effort that it is just mind boggling for me. What a small thing to have to experience or that you have to put effort to accomplish so much.

So by changing in ways like this, taking that pause that moment, to slow down take that breath and adjust your perception of reality, let the old programming that no longer serves you go and eliminate that the loneliness story is tied to and choose a more positive emotional response to the present situation you become a big hero and everyone gets blessings.

     There are many surface ways to help you to accomplish these things to help with the changing your perceptions of reality of situations that you are experiencing with loneliness and it’s fertile ground for growth. Yes, surface ways, like joining a class that improves you, your body, your mind like yoga, or a class at your local junior college or something that you would like to see if it is something you might be interested in, there are many avenues for this such as local city town or rural community centers that offer adult classes at night or weekends etc. for things like arts and crafts, exercise, or dance, music, Internet and computer, parenting, golf, yoga and so on. These are good ways to break down some of the perceived barriers and to connect and meet people with similar interests. This a good way for humans to help prevent that fertile ground for loneliness. Some other surface ways are to join a spiritual group, or join a church or religious group of your own choice and persuasion, or create your own group of your choosing such as rock hunting, paranormal group, science, book reading, or whatever subject matter that floats your boat because I guarantee you aren’t alone in your interests. If you are sure how to find those people for the group[ you want to create, here are some tried and true suggestions for that issue. Advertise on your local bulletin boards in your local grocery stores etc, community centers, church and meeting centers, community colleges and adult education centers, freebie newspapers , or on the Internet sites like Facebook and Twitter or Crisis type sites. Volunteer for various charities in your community. If language is a barrier go to your local community centers and adult education centers or churches or spiritual centers and take a class in the pertinent language and from there you will find people with similar language barriers as you. If it is cultural thing, learn about the culture that you are living in, expand your being with knowledge and truth and with the knowledge you can understanding and release the fear and encourage tolerance in yourself and others or teach others about the truth of your culture which also helps others to release ignorance and fear and allows tolerance and compassion an understanding to grow. This not only helps to ward off the loneliness thing but it raises the vibrations for all. If you are disabled or are not able to go out and about, create a group that again is something that you are interested in or create a social network group of disabled or inside bound people or if you are elderly and are homebound etc. this social network group is applicable also, you can connect thru phone, or the Internet or something like Skype which is free thru the computer and you can have several people be able to meet virtually without ever leaving there residences. If you are able to each get an Internet video cameras for your computers you can actually see each other. Nowadays those kinds of things are fairly inexpensive and there are various federal, state and local programs that could help you. Don’t give up if you want to help yourself to choose something more positive this is a real good tried and true way to begin that process.When we take the initiative and realize we are the creators of our realities and do these little things it reaffirms to the universe what you want and need it is like an active prayer, it reaches into the Creator’s toy box and pulls out and brings to you the thing you want that is for highest good which with that intent brings the highest good of all. It brings the real magic that is in us by our birthright as the children of God. What it does, to put it another way, it allows you to connect and have the opportunity to find and share with you fellow human beings common interests and it changes the parameters of the situation and brings in the fertile ground for growth for the positive, breaks down your perception that there are barriers and replaces the barriers with clear smooth avenues to accomplish what just recently you perceived as impossible. This will make the growth of the possibility of loneliness less of a possibility to happen. I’m not saying it will eliminate it altogether at this moment of our existence but it will take it from a high and impossible to get over mountain to in the least a small hill that you face and if enough of us take this perspective it will a some point become a mere speed bump. It is however a step closer for all of us one day to make something that has been highly improbable to eliminate from the human experience to be eliminated within the human experience. All it takes is one person to tell or show one person and it will catch on and once again you can know that YOU ARE A HERO!

      So to recap for you, “You are not your story nor are you your emotions. Become aware and notice the story, the thoughts, the beliefs, the perception of reality that loneliness (or any negative emotions) that you have tied to those stories or beliefs. Release it. Take the moment to pause and take a breath ,and stop and think and decide and become aware change your perception of the reality of the situation, be present and choose the best positive emotional response ( and the list of all the positive is available for you to choose all the time with no exceptions!) based on who you truly are in the present moment. Play with them and discern the best one that serves you highest good and the highest good of all. Then congratulations are in order because you are now on the best and fastest road to becoming a hero in your own right to making loneliness(and if you apply that mind set to sad, despair, etc it will do the same for those) all those painful soul expanding and suffering causing catalyst for humanity evolving cease to exist in this current human experience(at minimize them enough that they are speed bumps instead of impossible to climb over mountains). For sure it is a fact it help you when it is your turn to experience those painful moments, you will be able to move thru them with the greatest of ease and grace and receive blessings for yourself and all humanity.

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