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Greetings and Salutations One and All! We have a fantastic guest this week on Illuminations of Light LIVE! The amazing Carolyn Coleridge! We had the opportunity to meet Carolyn this year at the Conscious Life Expo in Los Angeles, and we were excited to be able to get her on the show! She’s been trained as a psycho therapist and practiced for 15 + years and she is currently working as a healer and soul reader as well as conducting seminars and classes regularly in the Los Angeles area! We are honored to have this terrific lady joining us for tomorrow night’s show.

Here is a bit more about our guest and her backround and some of the work she’s done recently! She will be doing soul readings for our listening audience who calls into the show! So be sure to call in 9pm MST on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight.

In her own words a bit about Intuitive Healing….

Intuitive Soul Healing

Is a healing method of helping clients align their mind, body and spirit.  Our soul is a big part of who we are.  This time on the planet we are being allowed more and more information about who was are as souls and what your divine destiny is.  Through mind, body awareness, I help you to become more connecting to your life and your mission here.  

With intuitive insight, I can see exactly what area you need help with and how to get there. If there is frustation,  Anxiety, Fear, or and inability to accomplish goals and general stagnantion in life, I can help you with SPIRITUAL LIFE COACHING using Universal Laws.

Are you feeling stressed and tired – try a REIKI healing session. It aligns your energy centers that affect you emotions  and energy body. I use specific crystals that help ground your energy and remove stagnant blocks.

Are you in a spiritual desert, feeling disconnected from source not understanding your life purpose. Schedule an appointment for an INTUITIVE Spiritual Consultation. 

I practice THETA HEALING  www.thetahealing.com which is a  method of removng blocks and beliefs that are preventing you from living life to the fullest. I test the beliefs through kinesiology,  I also give life coaching sessions with a spiritual twist working closely with the Law of Attraction.

My Background

Hello and Namaste!  My name is Carolyn and I am an intuitive energy healer and a spiritual counselor. I have been a healer for over 13 years. I was trained at Columbia University in York City as a Clinical social worker,  I now work as a Spiritual counselor under the Universal life church in California.  I have worked in corporate America coaching executives on Wall Street,  for health care organizations, an economic research firm and a film company.

Theta Healing is a spiritual healing method developed by Vianna Stibal.  Through kineseology and spiritual counseling sessions, it helps to remove blocks that are causing you discomfort in your life. 

Theta healing, releases beliefs that are  stored in the core level (beliefs that affect your thoughts)  historical,  – (past lives)  genetic (ancestary), soul  levels -(emcompasses beliefs that are of the soul’s xp      eriences). Miracously a pulling of a maladaptive belief can help you to change your inner belief systems and than change your life’s outcome in the outer world.  Beliefs create your reality.

REIKI –  means universal life force. It is a Japanese healing method, of hands on healing.  It helps you to receive the spiritual energy from the universe by focused intention and the laying on of hands.  The method is relaxing, peaceful, healing and can reduce pain. I include crystal healing for chakra balancing.

INTEGRATED ENERGY THERAPY – IET – Along with Reiki I do integrated energy therapy. This is a method given to Steven Thayer, from the angelic realm. It assists with healing emotions stored in the energy body. it is a gentle touch, like acupressure which clears emotions. I incorporate the Reiki, IET and Pranic Healing modalities and label the session Energy healing.

Spiritual Counseling ~ I work with the Universal laws of the universe and spiritual principles.  I can help relieve stress, trauma, depression and anxiety, by helping you uncover underlying beliefs that no longer serve you. Counseling of your soul is far more healing than counseling your personality.

The Spirit Of Women Entrepreneurs  Book! ~ I wrote a chapter in the book listed above. My chapter is about Honoring Your Spirit.   There are 40 other women authers that wrote about their ability to create their dream work.  It is a great read.  Please order the book  through. www.Amazon.com

Visits From Heaven by Josie Varga

Chapter Entitled : “Healing Hands from Heaven.” A complitation book with about 40 other authors available through www.amazon.com

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Ask for a special price for a Healing and a Reading for an hour and 1/2.  Sessions must be done together for discount to apply.

Clients often will have a combination of Intuitive healing sessions with  spiritual counseling and Theta healing to remove blocks.

Sacred Service – Agape Healing Ministery – The third friday of every month. Healings sessions by donation. Contact me to make sure the event is happening.

Carolyn has been featured on CNN

Carolyn Coleridge at the Conscious Life Expo Oct 2010

We are thrilled and honored to have this amazing lady on the show tomorrow Night! Be sure to tune in on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight! If you can’t be there live, then be sure to listen to the archives at the same URL. Much Love n Light to One and All!

To learn more about our lovely guest! Please visit www.intuitivesoulhealing.com! You can schedule a private session by visiting her homepage! See you at the show!

In Oneness of Heart,

Kimberly




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Greetings and Salutations One and All! We have the most amazing guest this week! Most folks will remember her as the mother to Drew Barrymore in the smash hit ET! She has become one of the most renound motivational speakers on the circuit and has authored several amazing empowering books and is running an acting coaching school, doing public appearances, doing her own webinar series in addition to a radio spot so she is quite the dynamic and phenomenal lady and we are most honored to welcome her as our guest this week! Tuesday night 9pm MST on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight.

So here is a bit more information on this beautiful spirit!

“Love yourself beyond anyone or anything else. Love yourself so much that you can’t do anything that doesn’t make you love yourself more.”

As a much sought after public speaker, Dee has spoken at numerous national and international venues including the Love and Harmony Forum in Tokyo, Japan; The Dillion Lecture Series, Unity Temple, Cornerstone Foundation, and the Kansas Film Commission in Kansas; The Sally Johnson Studio in New York; Spiritworks; The Sierra Madre Womenís Club; Energetic Healing seminars throughout England; and her own healing and teaching seminars throughout the United States. Dee has appeared on every major news and talk show and has been featured on E! True Hollywood Stories, Oprah and The O’Reilly Factor. On a weekly basis, Dee conducts numerous private healing sessions at her office in Woodland Hills, California.

As an author, Dee has written a book devoted to the art of self-healing. She conducts monthly workshops to introduce people to the healing techniques outlined in her book, Conscious Creation.

In addition to her ongoing work with fellow actors as an acting teacher and mentor, Dee devotes all her extra time to her beautiful daughter Gabrielle.

Her latest works include a book she co-authored with Jarrad Hewett, called ” The Big E: Everything is Energy:Unleashing the power of everyday wisdom” and her very latest release, ” Bright Light, Spiritual Lessons From a Life In Acting” Dee Wallace reveals the spiritual principles of an actor’s life that applies to Everyman’s journey of reclaiming self.

Written By: Dee Wallace with John Nelson

More about Dee Wallace:

Dee Wallace majored in Theater and English Education at the University of Kansas and taught a year of high school before heading to New York where she studied with famed acting coach Uta Hagen. Looking for a more intimate, in-the-moment style of acting, she migrated to Los Angeles in the mid 1970s and worked in television. A role on Lou Grant caught the eye of a casting director, which led to a choice part in the movie 10 with Dudley Moore. Her breakthrough film role was as Karen White in The Howling, followed a year later with the huge success of E.T.: The Extraterrestrial. Ms. Wallace continued to work in film and television and her career has spanned four decades with more than 100 film credits, including horror classics The Hills Have Eyes, The Howling, The Frighteners and Cujo.

Her recent television roles include Grey’s Anatomy, Cold Case, Without a Trace, Ghost Whisperer, Saving Grace and Criminal Minds. She has appeared on numerous talk shows over the years, including Oprah, The O’Reilly Factor and Good Morning America. In the 1990s Dee Wallace opened an acting studio following in the footsteps of her coach, Charles Conrad. Her approach of being in the moment, tapping into your knowingness and releasing the idea of any outcome became a bridge for spiritual expansion in both her and her students. This led to a second career as a spiritual teacher, healer and motivational speaker. In this capacity she has appeared at numerous national and international venues, including the Love and Harmony Forum in Tokyo; The Dillion Lecture Series, Unity Temple; and the Kansas Film Commission. In the fall of 2008, Dee Wallace published a book devoted to self-healing entitled Conscious Creation. She has engaged in a publicity program to promote her book including national radio programs, local and regional book signings, with anticipated talk show appearances in Los Angeles and elsewhere. She also conducts monthly workshops in L.A. to introduce people to her healing techniques and Energetic Healing seminars throughout Europe and the United States.

A bit more about the book, Bright Light….

About Bright Light

Like you, Dee Wallace came in as a bright shiny light, and she knew from the beginning that her soul quest was to keep that light shining and share it with others. This was a challenge growing up poor in Kansas amidst all the conflicting religious and social messages of her upbringing. But she stuck to this strong intent and followed her knowingness in a meteoric rise as an actress, becoming an acting icon after only five years with the success of E.T., and then faltering and losing her way only to reclaim the power of that knowingness later in life.

Bright Light works as an autobiographical tale of an actor’s life and craft, and how that journey applies to everyone’s spiritual journey. It is the story of Everyman: the reclaiming of Self. Each chapter of Dee Wallace’s story is characterized by a concept like “intention,” in which the narrative becomes an allegorical exploration of its qualities. Dee Wallace has rediscovered the wisdom that we all know but forget: that true success comes from following the heart’s lead, and that the mind only creates form for spirit’s creative manifestation. Our consciousness is our intelligence.

Here is a bit on the co -author

About John Nelson

John Nelson is the author of Starborn, Transformations, Matrix of the Gods, and The Magic Mirror, the 2008 COVR winner for the best New Age book of the year. He is the former editorial director of Bear & Company and Inner Oceans Publishing. In this capacity he has acquired and/or edited such titles as Maya Cosmogenesis 2012, Expanded Medicine Cards, Jean Houston’s Mystical Dogs, and Barbara Marciniak’s Family of Light and The Path of Empowerment. Mr. Nelson is the owner of Bookworks Ltd. and has recently edited such titles as The Sacred Promise by Gary Schwartz, The White House Doctor by Connie Mariano, The 12-Step Buddhist and God is Not Dead by Amit Goswami.

Here are some favorite YouTubes featuring Dee Wallace

This is just a small sample of the amazing talks that Dee has given over the years, her insight will truly blow you away, she comes from a very real place and motivates people to be all they can be.

Do not miss this fantastic opportunity to meet Dee Wallace LIVE! On Illuminations of Light LIVE! 9pm MST this Tuesday Night April 12, 2011 on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight! See you there everyone!

Love n Light in Oneness of Heart,

Kimberly

To reach Dee visit her website at : www.officialdeewallace.com

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Greetings and Salutations One and All! This week we have a very different show for us! We are hosting a panel show with four amazing guests! So in our blog focus this week we will be doing a series of close ups on our panelists! Today we start with the super amazing Elyce Monet! She is so phenomenally talented! And what an amazingly down to earth gal! She will astound you with her wisdom and insights! We are truly honored and excited to have her as a part of our panel on the topic of Angels this week!

Here is a bit more about this beautiful spirit and her work!

Biography of Elyce Monet The Heart Healer

Elyce Monet’s goal is to bring greater love, balance and harmony into the world, through spiritually based workshops and coaching.  She cherishes people, and understands that life does not always go well.  She is here to serve as a bridge to help people know who they are, why they are here, how to love themselves and experience living the life of their dreams.

Now based in Southern California, Elyce’s career has been marked by substantial contributions in three fields – Media and the Arts, Medicine and Healing, and Spirituality and Transformation.

Elyce’s book The Me I Couldn’t See, to be released early 2011, is a testament to the life lessons she has learned, notably the duality of our natures, and how learning to love one’s self is key in relating to everything that exists.

As a businesswoman, Elyce has been able to combine her creative skills to pioneer new fields.  In 1986, she created Parangello Players Theater and School, which have served thousands of budding artists in the Pacific Northwest.  In 1993, she pioneered the first program in the U.S. bringing together alternative practitioners with staff M.D.s through a hospital system.  It was highly successful, paving the way for others to integrate alternative and traditional medicine.

As an artist, Elyce has personally excelled, winning awards from music associations, including Rising Star Female Entertainer of the Year, Songwriter of the Year in 1995 and 1996, and Dancer of the Year in national competitions in Las Vegas.  She has written and recorded several CD projects in various styles, including country-funk, swing, and smooth jazz.  A Positively Entertainment review of her CD“The King of Swing” stated,  “[The CD is] a cross-over style swing beat mixed with the pristine vocals of Elyce Monet. In this number [Way After Hours] she comes off sounding like Michelle Pfeiffer from the movie The Fabulous Baker Boys at that unforgettable Christmas gig.”

In 1999, Elyce joined a nationally syndicated broadcasting firm, and earned the top producer award for the next eight years.  Next she launched her own media and communications consulting firm, Connect The Dots, Inc. Its clients include some of the world’s largest media companies for creative ideas and copy for infomercials, advertisements and the like.  She is hired as a writer, consultant, director, producer, and talent.  She has produced long-form programs with T. Harv Eker (Secrets of the Millionaire Mind), Dennis Prager, Dr. Steven Rosenblatt, Mariel Hemingway, Dr. Marc Darrow, Dr. Robert Marshall, Dr. Garth Nicolson, and Nutritional Therapeutics, Inc.

For the past nine years, Elyce has headed a campaign that sends gift packs to the U.S. military personnel stationed overseas, which has run every major holiday.”
For more information visit http://www.elycemonet.com!
Tune into the show this Tuesday Night 9pm MST on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight.

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Greetings and Salutations One and All! Have we got an amazing show for you this week! We are honored to have the legendary Dolores Cannon Joining us for what promises to be a very enlightening interview! This woman has been a trailblazer in the metaphysical and ufology worlds for over 30 years! She is a hypnotherapist who has written so very many books based on the information obtained during thousands of hypnosis sessions with her clients! She has mastered a technique which takes the client to the higher conscious levels to help her clients heal completely. She’s an amazing woman who’s insight will give you chills and awaken many triggers within your own memory as you listen to her speak. This is a rare opportunity so please be sure to tune in tomorrow night 9pm MST on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight!

Here is a bit more about our amazing guest!

Dolores Cannon, a regressive hypnotherapist and psychic researcher who records “Lost” knowledge, was born in St. Louis, Missouri in 1931. She was educated and lived in St. Louis until her marriage in 1951 to a career Navy man. She spent the next 20 years traveling all over the world as a typical Navy wife, and raising her family. In 1970 her husband was discharged as a disabled veteran, and they retired to the hills of Arkansas. She then started her writing career and began selling her articles to various magazines and newspapers. She has been involved with hypnosis since 1968, and exclusively with past-life therapy and regression work since 1979. She has studied the various hypnosis methods and thus developed her own technique which enabled her to gain the most efficient release of information from her clients. Dolores is now teaching her unique technique of hypnosis all over the world.

In 1986 she expanded her investigations into the UFO field. She has done on-site studies of suspected UFO landings, and has investigated the Crop Circles in England. The majority of her work in this field has been the accumulation of evidence from suspected abductees through hypnosis.

Dolores is an international speaker who has lectured on all the continents of the world. Her thirteen books are translated into twenty languages. She has spoken to radio and television audiences worldwide. Articles about/by Dolores have appeared in several U.S. and international magazines and newspapers. Dolores was the first American and the first foreigner to receive the “Orpheus Award” in Bulgaria for the highest advancement in the research of psychic phenomenon. She has received Outstanding Contribution and Lifetime Achievement awards from several hypnosis organizations.

Dolores has become, perhaps, the world’s most unlikely expert on the prophecies of Nostradamus. A retired Navy wife from Huntsville, AR, USA, Dolores was nearly fifty years old when she began experimenting with hypnosis and past-life regression. The results were, to say the least, quite spectacular!

Working through several different subjects, Dolores was able to establish communication with the living Michel De Notredame, better known as the prophet, Nostradamus. His revelations and their impact on our own time are both fascinating and at times frightening.

Dolores has written the three volume set “Conversations With Nostradamus”, the series on the translation of Nostradamus’ quatrains. This series contains the translation of almost 1000 prophecies, all interpreted for the first time and have been in print since 1989. It is considered the most accurate interpretation of the prophecies ever printed.

Dolores has been a UFO investigator for twenty years, using her skills as a regressionist to help people that had been involved in abduction cases. She has written several books on the UFO information volunteers have revealed while under hypnosis.

In addition to the three volumes of “Conversations With Nostradamus”, Dolores has completed:”The Legend of Starcrash”, “Keepers of the Garden”, “Legacy from the Stars”, “A Soul Remembers Hiroshima”, “They Walked With Jesus”, “Jesus and the Essenes” and “Between Death and Life”. “The Custodians”, discusses in detail information regarding distorted time, screen memories, reasons for abductions, implants and much, much more….

Her latest books, “The Convoluted Universe Series”, goes further into complex metaphysical theories and covers “mind-bending” concepts.

Other books dealing with more of her most interesting hypnosis cases are forthcoming.”

You may contact the author by emailing to:

DO Management

You may contact the author through their web site:
www.dolorescannon.com

Please visit Dolores on her Facebook Page!!

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Here  is her official YouTube video….

We hope that you all can join us live tomorrow evening 3/22/11. 9pm MST on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight.



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          We are honored to have the amazing Nancy Brown Joining us to talk about her passion, her life, her mission. Full Moon Farm is an organization dedicated to the well being of the wolfdog (wolf hybrid). Situated on 17 beautiful mountain acres in Black Mountain, NC, we operate as a federally recognized 501(c)(3) not-for-profit organization for abused and refused wolfdogs who find themselves in need of love, shelter, and care through no fault of their own.

         Full Moon Farm provides a safe haven for animals that cannot be placed into homes for the rest of their lives. Their rescued wolfdogs come from animal control agencies, closed breeding situations and occasionally, an owner in crisis. They evaluate each animal upon intake and work with them at their level of comfort. Some animals are “hands off” and they respect their choice, as well as that of the animals that crave human interaction. Their goal is to enrich the lives of the residents, allowing them to reach their highest potential. Support by donation or sponsorship makes that task possible. Though they may be abused or neglected, homeless because of death or divorce, they are all God’s Creatures and worthy of a lifetime of respect. Don’t miss this amazing woman and the beautiful and awsome animals that she dedicates herself to rescue hear her inspiring story this Tuesday on http://www. BlogTalkRadio.com/Illuminationsoflight at 8pmPST, 9PMST
         Nancy recently appeared on the Lifetime Channel, On the Road with Austin and Santino – http://www.mylifetime.com/shows/on-the-road-with-austin-santino/video/full-episodes/season-1/episode-13-pawty-time. Also, wolfdogs were featured in an article on Zootoo – http://www.zootoo.com/zootootv/v/petpulse640wolfdogmyths2  Full Moon Farm is on Facebook – Please support the Cause – Full Moon Farm. We need you.  http://apps.facebook.com/causes/279502  Join our Group:  http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=25616163419  Full Moon Farm is on Youtube as well, but the video request must be entered as Full Moon Farm + wolf dogs, as there is another Full Moon Farm and it deals with horses.
        DON’T MISS THIS AMAZING WOMAN  and the beautiful and noble  animals that she dedicates herself to rescue. Hear her inspiring story this Tuesday November 23, 2010 on Illuminations Of Light Live! at 8 PM PST, 9PM MST on www.BlogTalkRadio.Com/Illuminationsoflight

 

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Our Own Petitelion Has Some Wisdom About How To Deal With Loneliness!!!

 By: Lianna Giovannoni

      It is highly improbable that anyone ever would decide to wake up one morning and declare to the universe to God “Let there be loneliness! Please God bless with the miracle of loneliness or ask for loneliness as they wish upon a star! Loneliness is not an item on anybodies “bucket list”( things they want to experience before they die) No loneliness is not one of those things that people find and are willing to die for or take an oath for ,devote their lives to. It is never included in a small child’s silent prayer before bedtime. There are no monuments, walls, plaques, etc. that have been erected in honor of loneliness, no encouraging or patriotic or devoted slogans for loneliness(Give me Loneliness or give me Death!LOL).Loneliness is relegated to stories and poems and those are referred to as tragedies or tragic poems.(Dictionary meaning: a medieval narrative poem or tale typically describing downfall of a someone. or a story,poem or play that ends in some misfortune., a serious drama typically describing a conflict between the protagonist and a superior force (as destiny) and having a sorrowful or disastrous conclusion that elicits pity or terror , the literary genre of tragic dramas, a disastrous event ( calamity misfortune). Yes, there are poems and stories etc. that use lonely or loneliness to describe something like the look of a tree or the sound of bird, like ” the only thing on this remote mountain were just clouds and lonely pines, or the only thing that could be heard in the dark was the lonely call of the owl”. The use of lonely or loneliness as a descriptor is probably one of it’s most positive attributes.

     Loneliness is worse than sad. Sad is an integer to the formula of loneliness, such as sad+(bleakness/desolate/alone)= loneliness or sadness x 2=loneliness….in other words lonely has sad in it. It is a darkness that eats you from the inside out.

     Alone is not lonely…Alone just means that you do not have company. Whereas lonely is an constant ache of absence, one that even if you are surrounded by people you feel isolated, alone, bleak, desolate, imprisoned by some invisible wall. Loneliness lays dormant in everyone of us waiting for the right catalyst to wake it up and begin to thrive and grow. There are an infinite amount of catalysts out there, as many as their are feeling creatures and beings in the universe. No one or no living feeling, thinking, being or creature is immune. Although some seem not to suffer from it’s grip as much but they do not have a complete immunity. I’ve even seen pets express loneliness and sorrow, like when on owner dies or when another of the household animals die or leave. I, personally watched with my pets this , we had a male and a female Siamese cats that were pretty much raised together, and when the slightly older male passed away,the female literally cried, would not eat, and even pulled out big patches of her own fur out. She would go each day for weeks to each of the heat register looking for him (for the last 3 years or so of the male cat Robert had a touch of arthritis and would lay on those to loosen his stiff muscles in the morning or when it was very cold weather) she would look for him and she would see he was not there, she would look up at me with such a sadness in her eyes and in her body language and she would let a sad wail that sounded almost like a young woman crying out in loneliness, despair. It was heart wrenching, she would not let anyone console her or touch her.

     Loneliness can not only come from loosing someone thru death, or absence but from a perception that no one can understand or relate to you or that you don’t fit in for some perceived belief or story that you told yourself that somehow you are different or less than and that no one is there that wants or would desire to share life with you experiencing all of life’s ups and downs, no one to share the joys and sorrows, no one that would or could understand you or would share or care the same opinion as to what you consider significant. That there would no one to make memories with that you can share together later no one to enjoy the little things in life with. Sometimes when there is a loss of a person you life such as a life partner, husband/wife or a best friend that you shared all of those things with for a long time, when they are no longer in your life due to death or a breakup because of that loss and the grief that comes from that it may seem to you that you will never be able to find anyone to fill that space in life the void left from those kinds of loss can create such a deep grief that it creates a wall of despair and an over the top feeling alone. Because of that deep loss because of the grief a very pervasive and unique type of loneliness ensues and nothing or no one will be able to change that sense of aloneness the grief of the loss the darkness the sadness that is gripping you, except for going thru your grieving process and the healing effect of time.

     Loneliness can also awaken and grow when you feel so different from those around you that you convince yourself to believe that there will never be anyone for you. You can experience and create a prison of loneliness when you perceive that an impenetrable barrier exists between you and everyone else due to language and/or cultural differences or you moved to a new area where you don’t know anyone or if you suddenly get ill or disabled or anything that you perceive as a barrier between you and other people.

     First of all like I mentioned before, alone is not lonely. A lot of times, alone is what is preferred,wanted and sometimes what is needed. It is important to be comfortable with your own company and to be confident that you are a complete whole individual rather than feeling that you are not enough or that you are incomplete. Sometimes alone is necessary for your mental and/or physical well being. Alone gives us the best way to get perspective for yourself to gain clarity on life decisions , be alone with your thoughts gives us time to meditate, process things or events, gives the opportunity to quiet the chatter of your conscious mind to reduce stress, connect with your higher self or with the Higher power, to ground yourself,or just to have sometime to not be distracted or influenced by others to just to get to know your true nature without any input from others.

     Back to lonely now….First of all I want to say “YOU ARE NOT YOUR EMOTIONS YOU ARE NOT YOUR STORY! AND ALWAYS BE PRESENT!”. Having made those statements I want you to understand that I will be clarifying those shortly, so just keep them in your mind to the side. It will come together just bear with me thank you. What I am about to say can be applied to any emotional response but we are discussing lonely at the moment so if you find yourself asking the question “what about sad, or anxious just substitute the appropriate word for the word lonely okay? So here goes nothing!! Lonely is an emotion that you tied to the story you told yourself or bought into from someone else that your ego told to respond with to with the current situation that you seem to be experiencing at the present time. If we realize before you respond to the ego’s advice that all the emotions is just a list of emotional responses that you have available to choose from as the emotional response to the situations that you perceive you are experiencing as you move thru each moment in your life. Yes Virginia “YOU CHOOSE WHAT EMOTION YOU WANT TO FEEL in response to your perception of the reality of the situation that you are experiencing ” not the other way around. I know right now most of you are saying to yourself (I can’t help what I feel, I control what I feel they just happen, they just are! Yes, I know it may seem that way, because most of us for most of our lives our ego and all the other egos that you have been around throughout your life from the time of your birth, the ones you learned from and emulated as you were growing up have led you to believe (thru no fault of their own) and reinforced over and over one of the great human untruth list is that “We are at the mercy of our emotions” That they own you, they are calling the shots as to your emotional responses. Well guess what? That is the human ego’s ploy to get you to keep you believing that it is real so it can continue to exist and be in control keep you trapped by fear which creates resistance to soul expansion and to create a prison, to put a barrier to blind you to the truth so to speak and continue to buy into the falsehood, the false perception of the reality of your true nature, to state that plainly… to continue the illusion of “That you are at the mercy of your emotions and the story you tied them to, that you don’t have a choice in the matter”! Now, I’m not saying that people and situations, and old programs that you bought into for one reason or another don’t make it hard to choose a more positive emotional response. Let me just briefly give you a side note to this. I want you to understand that with the aforementioned “old programs that you bought into” It is nobody’s fault that you bought into that there was some wrong doing or error in discernment or that you are “stupid and should have known better!”, that is not it at all. It is just one of those human challenges that all of face so that we learn and grow and evolve. It is built into the system of the human process of growth. No one is exempt, no one has the knack or talent to not buy into old programming, because when you bought into them they were necessary for your survival at the moment but once they are loaded onto your hard drive it is difficult to know when or to remember to delete them. Know this “EVERYONE IS CHALLENGED BY THIS AND HAS THE SAME DIFFICULTY AS YOU IT IS JUST PART OF LIFE!” so “DON’T BEAT YOURSELF UP FOR IT PLEASE”!!!! It is just one of those things that is a standard catalysts for all beings to challenge us to learn and adjust and change things in the present so that we can have the opportunity to expand our souls, evolve as spiritual beings having a human experience. Bottom line,it is just part of life!Just like when we grew to adults from being children the average person’s bones lengthen and grow larger, and in puberty we get hair in places that we didn’t have as children, it is just part of becoming, well so is the program buying into thing. Again you are not your story nor are you your emotions. Anyone who tries to tell you or convince differently ….This is what I have to say to them….QUACK! Yes quack! Check this out, your emotions are yours! Yes folks, those puppies are yours to command! Yes, you too can choose what to feel as a response to stuff! Like I said before things, situations and people may make it more difficult to choose a positive emotional response, but with some effort and practice you can do it. As with anything that you learn, especially when it comes to changing old habits, old programs that we have used forever that really in the present do not serve us anymore it takes a minute to become successful at right away. Be patient with yourself do your best to remember to make the effort to slow yourself down, take a breath and as you do this stop the auto pilot decision making process and stop and take the time to think and ask yourself,”How can I stay in the present and choose a best emotional response for what I am truly experiencing now?…not based on what you responded to a similar story from your past that ego is trying to convince you still are but, on who you truly are from you true nature, from your high self, now in this present moment.With the intent of doing it for the highest good for yourself and the highest good of all. It does get easier as you go along and each time you remember to do this the closer you come to do it effortlessly and with a 100% success rate, and really you will be surprised that it will happen easier and quicker than you think! You may be asking yourself,” well how does this apply to loneliness? ” well, I will tell you. When you sense it creeping in and ego begins it’s existence saving dance running it’s jib in your head, trying to convince you to buy into it’s sales pitch. Take the time to look at the story or thought processes or beliefs behind why you are leaning towards choosing lonely as your emotional response, why this emotion is tied to the story why the ego is trying to convince you that this is the response that you need so desperately(from ego’s perspective) to respond with, why this present situation triggered ego to know it is time to get it’s licks in, why ego needs you to respond this way, what is ego’s motive and how this particular? response helps ego to maintain it’s illusionary existence? Ego is like when you were a kid and you had an imaginary friend that keeps sabotaging and causing trouble and because no one else can see them you get blamed for it’s pervasive behavior. Ego like the imaginary friend is forever trying to convince you that it is real, like Pinocchio before the fairy godmother got to him-he is not real and never will be , he will only able to fool you into thinking it is real and that you are the puppet! Well it is time to take back your throne be the ruler of your reality! It is time to pinch yourself and wake up and see that you aren’t the puppet and ego the puppeteer that you are the master puppeteer and ego is the wooden puppet! You are the creator and the master and ruler of your emotions and ego, they are to do your bidding, they are your subjects and not subject to them! When you are suffering with loneliness or that the situation that you are participating in is one that perhaps the all time best scenario for loneliness to thrive and grow and in the present moment you are not able to see a way out from your current perspective reality, that there could no other choice for you. Stop and without hesitation but with complete faith that no matter what things seem like it is truly an illusion do not believe it for one second!!!!!Tell loneliness to get out of town take a long walk off a short pier, take a hike! Turn and face it and see that it is just an illusion. Find your voice… use your imagination and create for yourself a much better reality for yourself by pulling yourself out of the illusion and create the new true perception of reality in your mind. Realize that emotions and stories come and go. Nothing stays the same, things change all the time, nothing is static. Even if it seems to you that it is the lowest worst moment of loneliness of sadness in the world and that is no way out of it could never ever change…Stop, breath, look at the story behind all of that fear, all the loneliness that you tied to that story, or belief/thoughts that aren’t you , are not in the present not your true nature, just not real and pull yourself out of your illusionary perspective and change your perspective to one that serves you better in this present moment, even if it is to incorporate this thought, It won’t be like this forever it will change because nothing is static. Maybe Close your eyes and hold on to that little bit and release the emotion(loneliness) as the emotional response to the present perspective of the situation . Say out loud if you want or just think it, it works either way, it is your coloring book your crayons, I Release it , let it go – then look at some other more positive way to perceive the situation as to why you are experiencing this based purely in the present moment from your true highest self change it to perhaps as an example: Maybe if I see this as something as this situation isn’t about choosing this to be bad but rather a gift of the opportunity to find a better way see this situation as a plus rather than a negative, an opportunity to gain than a loss, that it is for you not against you. you could change this into you have the opportunity to become a hero and to receive blessings by sacrificing and experiencing a little discomfort so that someone else will get an opportunity to get the chance to expand their soul their skill sets raise their vibration by getting a chance at to allow someone their chance to discern and choose to be compassionate, to recognize that one of their own needs their help , to motivate them to learn to be a better expression of God having a human experience, by motivating them to choose to become a more loving kind person, awaken them to their true nature, more of a true human being and discern and choose love and compassion recognize it is the time to give and transform themselves and receive blessings and grace which raises their vibration which raises the vibration of all humans. For your small sacrifice you not only do you get to be a hero and give someone a chance to receive blessings you get the chance to raise the whole humanity but you get to receive blessings and grace and to raise your self up which also does the same for all. So the point is look how much can be accomplished, look at the scope of the effect of just a small change in the way you choose to see things, change your perception of reality and your emotional response to things. It is so a win win win win situation for such a small amount of effort that it is just mind boggling for me. What a small thing to have to experience or that you have to put effort to accomplish so much.

So by changing in ways like this, taking that pause that moment, to slow down take that breath and adjust your perception of reality, let the old programming that no longer serves you go and eliminate that the loneliness story is tied to and choose a more positive emotional response to the present situation you become a big hero and everyone gets blessings.

     There are many surface ways to help you to accomplish these things to help with the changing your perceptions of reality of situations that you are experiencing with loneliness and it’s fertile ground for growth. Yes, surface ways, like joining a class that improves you, your body, your mind like yoga, or a class at your local junior college or something that you would like to see if it is something you might be interested in, there are many avenues for this such as local city town or rural community centers that offer adult classes at night or weekends etc. for things like arts and crafts, exercise, or dance, music, Internet and computer, parenting, golf, yoga and so on. These are good ways to break down some of the perceived barriers and to connect and meet people with similar interests. This a good way for humans to help prevent that fertile ground for loneliness. Some other surface ways are to join a spiritual group, or join a church or religious group of your own choice and persuasion, or create your own group of your choosing such as rock hunting, paranormal group, science, book reading, or whatever subject matter that floats your boat because I guarantee you aren’t alone in your interests. If you are sure how to find those people for the group[ you want to create, here are some tried and true suggestions for that issue. Advertise on your local bulletin boards in your local grocery stores etc, community centers, church and meeting centers, community colleges and adult education centers, freebie newspapers , or on the Internet sites like Facebook and Twitter or Crisis type sites. Volunteer for various charities in your community. If language is a barrier go to your local community centers and adult education centers or churches or spiritual centers and take a class in the pertinent language and from there you will find people with similar language barriers as you. If it is cultural thing, learn about the culture that you are living in, expand your being with knowledge and truth and with the knowledge you can understanding and release the fear and encourage tolerance in yourself and others or teach others about the truth of your culture which also helps others to release ignorance and fear and allows tolerance and compassion an understanding to grow. This not only helps to ward off the loneliness thing but it raises the vibrations for all. If you are disabled or are not able to go out and about, create a group that again is something that you are interested in or create a social network group of disabled or inside bound people or if you are elderly and are homebound etc. this social network group is applicable also, you can connect thru phone, or the Internet or something like Skype which is free thru the computer and you can have several people be able to meet virtually without ever leaving there residences. If you are able to each get an Internet video cameras for your computers you can actually see each other. Nowadays those kinds of things are fairly inexpensive and there are various federal, state and local programs that could help you. Don’t give up if you want to help yourself to choose something more positive this is a real good tried and true way to begin that process.When we take the initiative and realize we are the creators of our realities and do these little things it reaffirms to the universe what you want and need it is like an active prayer, it reaches into the Creator’s toy box and pulls out and brings to you the thing you want that is for highest good which with that intent brings the highest good of all. It brings the real magic that is in us by our birthright as the children of God. What it does, to put it another way, it allows you to connect and have the opportunity to find and share with you fellow human beings common interests and it changes the parameters of the situation and brings in the fertile ground for growth for the positive, breaks down your perception that there are barriers and replaces the barriers with clear smooth avenues to accomplish what just recently you perceived as impossible. This will make the growth of the possibility of loneliness less of a possibility to happen. I’m not saying it will eliminate it altogether at this moment of our existence but it will take it from a high and impossible to get over mountain to in the least a small hill that you face and if enough of us take this perspective it will a some point become a mere speed bump. It is however a step closer for all of us one day to make something that has been highly improbable to eliminate from the human experience to be eliminated within the human experience. All it takes is one person to tell or show one person and it will catch on and once again you can know that YOU ARE A HERO!

      So to recap for you, “You are not your story nor are you your emotions. Become aware and notice the story, the thoughts, the beliefs, the perception of reality that loneliness (or any negative emotions) that you have tied to those stories or beliefs. Release it. Take the moment to pause and take a breath ,and stop and think and decide and become aware change your perception of the reality of the situation, be present and choose the best positive emotional response ( and the list of all the positive is available for you to choose all the time with no exceptions!) based on who you truly are in the present moment. Play with them and discern the best one that serves you highest good and the highest good of all. Then congratulations are in order because you are now on the best and fastest road to becoming a hero in your own right to making loneliness(and if you apply that mind set to sad, despair, etc it will do the same for those) all those painful soul expanding and suffering causing catalyst for humanity evolving cease to exist in this current human experience(at minimize them enough that they are speed bumps instead of impossible to climb over mountains). For sure it is a fact it help you when it is your turn to experience those painful moments, you will be able to move thru them with the greatest of ease and grace and receive blessings for yourself and all humanity.

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Greetings and salutations! One and All! I do hope this blog entry finds you well and happy. It has been a crazy week for me on a personal level as well as the professional level. But I wanted to keep the momentum going with this entry of our blog series on relationships. We have covered in past entries the ideas of co dependence and independence, however, we have never covered the idea of inter-dependence. This is a new term that I created to explain the concept of a partnership. These ideas that I am discussing are uni-sexual and universal. They can be applied to any relationship in existence. The reason that I feel it is necessary to create this new concept is that we are moving towards this with the shifts that are coming. How do we put action to making it “we” and not “me”. How do we take the first steps to becoming community minded again instead of overly independent and isolated?

I do not think that I have all the answers or all the parts but I can see how some of it can work. So I only ask that you read these ideas with an open mind and expand on them if you are so inspired and share those thoughts with the world. Leave a comment. I respond to all legitimate comments. So moving onto the concepts first.

Community to my definition is this: ” A gathering of beings working in harmony and cooperation with one another.”

I see this as the third phase if you will because really it begins within yourself and extends to your immediate friends and families and thus it naturally evolves to a community. There are many communities large and small. It’s not the size that matters in this instance. The idea behind a “community” is to work together in cooperation. Now this sounds really great in theory and in an ideal world that would work. It takes a solid commitment of common thinking to make something like this work. For example. Terminology. People as wonderfully different as they are will look at something and have a totally different take on what it is they see. The same idea holds true when they describe things. How often have you said to another person, “that’s not what I meant!” So definition of terms is imperative to healthy communication.

Cooperation: We have learned over the course of the past few millennia to be competative not cooperative with one another. In this shift which is coming there needs to be a cooperation between ourselves and the world around us. Money or it’s concept no longer serves us. I do not have all of the answers but what I do know is that there is no good reason that there are people who are lacking anything in this world. There is enough resources on this planet to sustain 100 billion people if we all worked together to balance that out.

Courtesy/Manners/Respect- People in this age of “Me”, have forgotten some very basic things in life. That people are people for one and for another, that we should treat others the way we would wish to be treated. With kindness, compassion, understanding, tolerance, respect. Words like ” I’m sorry” or “Thank you” or ” Please” go a long ways. Remembering that coming at someone offensively will cause the reactions of defensive manuevers. That a man’s word is golden, if you say you are going to do something then follow through with it, and if something should come up then communicate that with the person you made the promise to.

Communication: Talking, Texting, Writing letters, Computers, Telephones, Smoke signals. Throughout time man has found many creative ways to communicate what is in one’s head. From hieroglyphs to artwork of all kinds and music and story telling and tapestry to architecture and technology. We have found many ways to communicate with each other because we as human beings are communal creatures. We are social. We enjoy the interaction with others around us. We have lost the gift of mind reading which was our original forms of communication. We lost that ability when we fell into the third dimension. As part of the awakening and remembering, this gift is slowly being restored. Thus the words of Christ, “And the darkness shall come to the light, there will be no more secrets, no more lies…” because if we can read each other’s thoughts we have no way or place to “hide” anything. That is an illusion.

To live as two individuals, loving unconditionally in the present moment and working toward a common good is not an easy combination to find. There is a fine balance in inter-dependence. When you are in a partnership, the advantages are that you are not alone, if one falls short in an area the other can assist in making that up with their strengths. This is different then two people as one. We all have our paths and lessons in life. To release judgments and expectations can be a challenge for many. To release the need to control anything is also a challenge for most people. We do not realize how often we come from a place of needing to control people and situations. We must become cognoscente of these times when we are falling into emotional reactions and old programming. It is helpful if you are involved with another who is of like mind so that you may help each other in the recognition of when you are playing the old tapes. The old saying of ” You are the company you keep” holds some truth to it. For what you surround yourself with or feed into your mind is what is in your heart and eventually comes out of the mouth and it feeds like a perpetual circle. So the way to break free from this cycle is to change the response and change the environment and change the input in general. Surround yourself with things that are going to help you achieve your goal of peace and tranquility on a constant basis. Surrounding yourself with positive people is a start. Listening to soothing music instead of angry music is another place that we can change what we feed our brain. These are all things to help us remember that we are whole and secure within our freedom and do not require dependence but choose to be engaged in an inter-dependent , inter-active relationship.

When I first started to think about this whole idea, I went through the list of friends I had in my life. I really got honest about what it was I was gaining from having these people in my life. How have they served me and were there any there who didn’t serve me. I also had to make a decision about what was a friend to me. Applying the terminology again. I had determined that most of the people in my life were in fact NOT friends, but more acquaintances and business associates. That was a rude awakening for me. I had found that I was being a friend and giving more in the relationships then I was receiving and as a result I found that I was getting drained in my energies on a daily basis. When I made the choice to no longer allow the imbalances to take place, those people were taken out of my life, either by my own hand or by circumstance. I also had to work it as I have said earlier in this article, to just let things and people be what they are.

Here is an example. I recently had a guest who had forgotten to mark their appearance on our show, they subsequently didn’t make the appearance. Now, most people would have been hurt or insulted or upset, and I have to admit that I too would have been counted among those people a year ago. Instead my new reaction now was that all things happen for a reason and there are no accidents. This person had some place else to be and that was totally ok and things worked out in the end and so no harm no foul. This left both people feeling as if it was a win win situation. By choosing a different reaction, the response could have left a much more destructive and negative taste in both mouths. But by understanding that things happen, mistakes can be made and that it all works out in the end as it should anyway, to have that total faith that it will all be ok and that it is meant to be. Even when things do not work out in the way we had hoped it is usually for the better.

Not holding expectations on other people or their actions. Again the need to control. If you limit the universe in outcomes or if you place expectation then you are setting yourself up for instant disappointment. If you just go with the flow and not attach the outcome it usually works out better then you expected in your mind.This is much easier in theory then in practice. It takes great conscious effort to allow others to be and to BE yourself. To detach from the emotional body and to control the thoughts and to come from a place of peace. Too often we give too much of ourselves and things in relationships become unbalanced. There needs to be an exchange of energy on some level in a dualistic reality. In the oneness all just IS.

Can human beings achieve inter-dependence? Hard to say. I believe I have seen couples do this on occasion. To be independent, lead independent lives, but still be together. As ” The Profit” states. Like two pillars holding things up, but standing separately, both eat bread but not of the same loaf. To find that balance where two can be in sanctuary and not in a place of beholden or fear. I believe that we have to come to a place of humility and a willingness to work with others in realizing that many hands make less work, but all parties must be willing to do their part. One’s input doesn’t have to be the same work, but a portion of it.

Some interesting musings on inter-dependence and partnerships. What are your thoughts?

Until next time, in Love n Light and Oneness of Heart,

xoxo

Kimberly


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