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“He was born and raised,  and realized his gift of healing in his hometown, of Los Angeles, California.  Bruce’s gift, as a Conduit for the Transference of Positive Healing Energies, came as a result of a conscious near death  experience, which occurred while he was driving alone on a crowded Los Angeles  Freeway in May of 2002. The thing he is most sure of today, is that he was most definitely not alone during that fateful ride.” 

Bruce Gold is an amazing man with an amazing journey and he will be LIVE! Tonight on Illuminations of light LIVE! Be sure to tune in http://www.blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight at 9pm MDT. 

We will be discussing his gift, synchronicities and more! It promises to be a great show! For more information on our guest and the amazing work he’s participated in, visit http://www.bgspiritualhealer.com/.

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Greetings and Salutations One and All! I do hope the week has been an adventurous one for you all! We have a fantastic show lined up for you this week! I was surfing youtube one day and I came across some of this young ladies entries and was totally blown away by her amazing insight and her tremendous energy and I knew instantaneously she was one to watch! She is an up and coming speaker and teacher and authoress and is currently working to complete her graduate degree in psychology with the intention of working with the whole person and a more holistic approach to her healing! We are proud to be her debut show and I think you all will enjoy her as much as we do! She is dynamic and down to earth and has been there and done that so I hope that you all will be able to join us for what promises to be an outstanding interview this week! 8pm PST , 9pm MST on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight.

Here is a bit more about our guest…..

Paige Bartholomew is a “love-worker” with a mission to help people make the shift into true comfort and peace. She is currently earning her master’s degree in individual, marriage and family therapy at St. Edward’s University in Austin, Texas.  In addition, Paige is specializing in the healing of Trauma through her studies at the Somatic Experiencing Trauma Institute. She has been a devoted student of Sufism for 14 years, where she earned the station of Sufi Master Teacher in the Shadhuliyya Order.  She is a long-time spiritual healer, certified hypnotherapist and passionate writer of healing and spiritual issues.  Paige’s life’s work is about moving toward worldwide awakening and peace through the healing of the individual heart. She currently offers traditional counseling, holistic coaching and spiritual hypnotherapy sessions.

Here are some of her YouTube clips….

 

For more Paige on YouTube visit:

http://www.youtube.com/user/PaigeBartholomew

 

To contact Paige you may write her thru Facebook or her website:

Website:                              www.Paigebartholomew.com

Facebook:                           www.facebook.com/TheRevolutionOfEvolution

 

Don’t miss this terrific gal and this terrific interview tomorrow nite 9pm MST on http://www.blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsofllight!

Love n Light til next time,

Kimberly

 

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Greetings and Salutations One and All! I do hope this blog finds you all well and happy and full of Springtime energy! April opens with a bang this month as we continue to bring you top of the line guests from all over the world! This week we have an amazingly talented man, Mr. Peter Canova! He was one of the speakers at the Conscious Life Expo and has an award winning book ” Pope Annalisa”, which is book One of the ” First Souls” Trilogy. This book is phenomenal! Well written, it reads like a movie from the get go and the story just sucks you into it immediately! Definitely worth all the raves it’s gotten, if you have the opportunity, definitely get this book! You can find out all about it at www.popeannalisa.com and you can order the book here. This is going to be a real treat for everyone! And I have it on good authority that we will be seeing more of Mr. Canova very very soon! So read on to find out more about this man, his work, his being! And be sure to listen to what should be an extremely interesting interview this Tuesday Night 9pm MST on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight! Tell a friend!

 

 

About Peter Canova

For the past 30 years, Peter Canova has researched mainstream and alternative religious/spiritual studies, along with quantum physics.  He is considered one of America’s foremost authorities on the secret teachings of the Gnostic Gospels and the Sacred Feminine, and is the acclaimed author of the newly released spiritual thriller, Pope Annalisa, the winner of five awards in 2010, including the Nautilus Gold Award for visionary fiction formerly bestowed on such authors as Eckhart Tolle, Deepak Chopra, and the Dalai Lama.

From the time he first experienced phenomena such as telepathy, remote viewing, intuitive medical readings, and psychic healing, Peter Canova has spent much of his life seeking to understand the forces that link humanity together at an unseen level.

Peter’s former businesses—luxury hotel development, shipping, and import/exporting—carried him around the world, giving him an insider’s view of international politics, finance, and the mentality of foreign cultures. Athens, Rome, London, the Middle East, Thailand, and Africa were the crucibles that melded business, political, and economic intrigues in Peter’s experience, giving him real life stories that could make best sellers in and of themselves.

In each of these venues, Peter also met a variety of spiritual figures, all of whom appeared in his life unsolicited and confirmed his conviction that spirit transcends the religious beliefs that tend to divide people.

Peter had an affinity for writing, and in the late 1990’s he acted on this talent winning a First Literary Prize for his very first short story at the highly respected Santa Barbara’s Writer’s Conference in California. Shortly thereafter, he took first place out of 500 entries in Francis Ford Coppola’s online Zoetrope magazine for his first publicly circulated short story, The Blood of our Departed.

Peter continued his track record of writing excellence with the publication of Pope Annalisa, which immediately won the Nautilus and Independent Publishers Awards in quick succession followed by the National Best Book Award. In Pope Annalisa, he explores an ancient spiritual tradition which cut across not only Judaism, Christianity, and Islam, but also the so-called pagan mystery schools of ancient days.

Peter has twenty-five years of voluminous research behind him in both mainstream and alternative religious/spiritual studies, with a particular interest in early Christianity.  He  is a leading expert on Gnostic and other ancient spiritual traditions. He travels the country as a speaker on such topics as parallels between Gnostic mysticism and quantum physics, the Sacred Feminine, Mary Magdalene and the lost women of the Bible, and the secret teachings of Jesus. His skills helped him break down these  complex spiritual themes into simple and entertaining fiction.  Pope Annalisa was a combination of this research and information channeled in his own meditations.

His hope is that this cross-over novel, part thriller and part spiritual wisdom text, will point to a new paradigm transcending the dead end dogmas of religious, cultural and gender differences that have caused so much suffering in the human community.

I have had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Canova and he is definitely high energy, full  of wonderful insights and a unique perspective on life in general. I think that you all are going to really enjoy this man’s work, his book and this interview! So please be sure to tune in Tuesday Night 9pm MST on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight!

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Greetings and Salutations One and All! We continue our blog series close up on our Angelic Panelists….Today we focus on Alan Wilks! Alan is an amazing young man, whom I have had the pleasure of knowing for some years now. He is the author of several acclaimed books and two of them are specifically on the angelic realms. So his contributions to this panel will be insightful and interesting no doubt. Here is a bit more about Mr. Alan Wilks!

 


Here’s a few words about who Alan is in his own words….

My name is Alan Wilks born 26th may 1981, in Liverpool England, i am the author of angelic wisdom & Light, Angelic Wisdom & darkness, Valentine of hell and the shadow people, i am also a a 1st dan black belt and previous sensei of shotokan karate and have trained  for almost 24 years. I also have experience in muay thai and Go kan ryu. Martial arts is one of my greatest passions along with writing an illustrating. I have had a few careers in my life i am also a previous pastry chef, have worked in security and hospitality industries. I long to be a full time writer and aim to be able to work  anywhere that may inspire me. I have for many years worked with the angel realms, i believe i was born with the ability to communicate and to see celestial energies, but my greatest awakening would have been perhaps around my 11th birthday, this is where my empathy, and clairvoyance started to really take shape.I have overcome many hardships in my life which has enabled me to draw closer to divine interventions and the angelic realms. After loosing my mother at the age of 22 I had lost a part of my faith, which I later regained due largely to the mentor-ship of Kim, who challenged me to further my ability and understanding. I have witnessed many miraculous healing with the aid of angels and positive energies during prayers or meditations, I continue to spread the word of angels to those who are in need of light or hope. I suppose i have lived my whole life an outsider, somewhat a freak to others seeing what i see on a daily basis, being able to communicate and channel celestial energy is not easy to understand for many, they associate me as a psychic, yet I feel i am somewhat different to the conventional means of a psychic. I consider myself more a spiritual guide for people who may be searching for answers.”

To Reach Alan you can write him directly at SenseiWilks@gmail.com

Or visit his Homepage at  http://www.wix.com/senseiwilks/officialwebsite

 

Alan has grown tremendously over the years and it’s going to be a true pleasure and honor to have him as a part of this show. I know you will love him as much as I do! This Tuesday Night 9pm MST on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight!

Peace all!

Kimberly


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Greetings and Salutations One and All! This week we have a very different show for us! We are hosting a panel show with four amazing guests! So in our blog focus this week we will be doing a series of close ups on our panelists! Today we start with the super amazing Elyce Monet! She is so phenomenally talented! And what an amazingly down to earth gal! She will astound you with her wisdom and insights! We are truly honored and excited to have her as a part of our panel on the topic of Angels this week!

Here is a bit more about this beautiful spirit and her work!

Biography of Elyce Monet The Heart Healer

Elyce Monet’s goal is to bring greater love, balance and harmony into the world, through spiritually based workshops and coaching.  She cherishes people, and understands that life does not always go well.  She is here to serve as a bridge to help people know who they are, why they are here, how to love themselves and experience living the life of their dreams.

Now based in Southern California, Elyce’s career has been marked by substantial contributions in three fields – Media and the Arts, Medicine and Healing, and Spirituality and Transformation.

Elyce’s book The Me I Couldn’t See, to be released early 2011, is a testament to the life lessons she has learned, notably the duality of our natures, and how learning to love one’s self is key in relating to everything that exists.

As a businesswoman, Elyce has been able to combine her creative skills to pioneer new fields.  In 1986, she created Parangello Players Theater and School, which have served thousands of budding artists in the Pacific Northwest.  In 1993, she pioneered the first program in the U.S. bringing together alternative practitioners with staff M.D.s through a hospital system.  It was highly successful, paving the way for others to integrate alternative and traditional medicine.

As an artist, Elyce has personally excelled, winning awards from music associations, including Rising Star Female Entertainer of the Year, Songwriter of the Year in 1995 and 1996, and Dancer of the Year in national competitions in Las Vegas.  She has written and recorded several CD projects in various styles, including country-funk, swing, and smooth jazz.  A Positively Entertainment review of her CD“The King of Swing” stated,  “[The CD is] a cross-over style swing beat mixed with the pristine vocals of Elyce Monet. In this number [Way After Hours] she comes off sounding like Michelle Pfeiffer from the movie The Fabulous Baker Boys at that unforgettable Christmas gig.”

In 1999, Elyce joined a nationally syndicated broadcasting firm, and earned the top producer award for the next eight years.  Next she launched her own media and communications consulting firm, Connect The Dots, Inc. Its clients include some of the world’s largest media companies for creative ideas and copy for infomercials, advertisements and the like.  She is hired as a writer, consultant, director, producer, and talent.  She has produced long-form programs with T. Harv Eker (Secrets of the Millionaire Mind), Dennis Prager, Dr. Steven Rosenblatt, Mariel Hemingway, Dr. Marc Darrow, Dr. Robert Marshall, Dr. Garth Nicolson, and Nutritional Therapeutics, Inc.

For the past nine years, Elyce has headed a campaign that sends gift packs to the U.S. military personnel stationed overseas, which has run every major holiday.”
For more information visit http://www.elycemonet.com!
Tune into the show this Tuesday Night 9pm MST on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight.

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Greetings and Salutations One and All! Have we got an amazing show for you this week! We are honored to have the legendary Dolores Cannon Joining us for what promises to be a very enlightening interview! This woman has been a trailblazer in the metaphysical and ufology worlds for over 30 years! She is a hypnotherapist who has written so very many books based on the information obtained during thousands of hypnosis sessions with her clients! She has mastered a technique which takes the client to the higher conscious levels to help her clients heal completely. She’s an amazing woman who’s insight will give you chills and awaken many triggers within your own memory as you listen to her speak. This is a rare opportunity so please be sure to tune in tomorrow night 9pm MST on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight!

Here is a bit more about our amazing guest!

Dolores Cannon, a regressive hypnotherapist and psychic researcher who records “Lost” knowledge, was born in St. Louis, Missouri in 1931. She was educated and lived in St. Louis until her marriage in 1951 to a career Navy man. She spent the next 20 years traveling all over the world as a typical Navy wife, and raising her family. In 1970 her husband was discharged as a disabled veteran, and they retired to the hills of Arkansas. She then started her writing career and began selling her articles to various magazines and newspapers. She has been involved with hypnosis since 1968, and exclusively with past-life therapy and regression work since 1979. She has studied the various hypnosis methods and thus developed her own technique which enabled her to gain the most efficient release of information from her clients. Dolores is now teaching her unique technique of hypnosis all over the world.

In 1986 she expanded her investigations into the UFO field. She has done on-site studies of suspected UFO landings, and has investigated the Crop Circles in England. The majority of her work in this field has been the accumulation of evidence from suspected abductees through hypnosis.

Dolores is an international speaker who has lectured on all the continents of the world. Her thirteen books are translated into twenty languages. She has spoken to radio and television audiences worldwide. Articles about/by Dolores have appeared in several U.S. and international magazines and newspapers. Dolores was the first American and the first foreigner to receive the “Orpheus Award” in Bulgaria for the highest advancement in the research of psychic phenomenon. She has received Outstanding Contribution and Lifetime Achievement awards from several hypnosis organizations.

Dolores has become, perhaps, the world’s most unlikely expert on the prophecies of Nostradamus. A retired Navy wife from Huntsville, AR, USA, Dolores was nearly fifty years old when she began experimenting with hypnosis and past-life regression. The results were, to say the least, quite spectacular!

Working through several different subjects, Dolores was able to establish communication with the living Michel De Notredame, better known as the prophet, Nostradamus. His revelations and their impact on our own time are both fascinating and at times frightening.

Dolores has written the three volume set “Conversations With Nostradamus”, the series on the translation of Nostradamus’ quatrains. This series contains the translation of almost 1000 prophecies, all interpreted for the first time and have been in print since 1989. It is considered the most accurate interpretation of the prophecies ever printed.

Dolores has been a UFO investigator for twenty years, using her skills as a regressionist to help people that had been involved in abduction cases. She has written several books on the UFO information volunteers have revealed while under hypnosis.

In addition to the three volumes of “Conversations With Nostradamus”, Dolores has completed:”The Legend of Starcrash”, “Keepers of the Garden”, “Legacy from the Stars”, “A Soul Remembers Hiroshima”, “They Walked With Jesus”, “Jesus and the Essenes” and “Between Death and Life”. “The Custodians”, discusses in detail information regarding distorted time, screen memories, reasons for abductions, implants and much, much more….

Her latest books, “The Convoluted Universe Series”, goes further into complex metaphysical theories and covers “mind-bending” concepts.

Other books dealing with more of her most interesting hypnosis cases are forthcoming.”

You may contact the author by emailing to:

DO Management

You may contact the author through their web site:
www.dolorescannon.com

Please visit Dolores on her Facebook Page!!

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Here  is her official YouTube video….

We hope that you all can join us live tomorrow evening 3/22/11. 9pm MST on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight.



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Greetings and Salutations One and All! I do hope that you all have had a wonderful week and will continue to do so! We have an amazing guest for you this week! This man is by far the grandfather of all we know about “Crop Circles”. He has authored many books, he had toured the world with his lovely wife and spoken on this topic all over the world! We had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Andrews and he graciously accepted to speak with us on the show. WOW! What an honor! I have followed this man’s work for many years! I practically grew up with his work! So we are extremely excited to be able to speak with him!

You can find out more about Colin on his official website at www.colinandrews.net

Here’s a bit more information on our amazing guest!

Colin is best known for his research into the crop circle & UFO subjects since 1983. He provides the only continuity between the past crop circle research era and the present, along with his friend and colleague, Busty Taylor.  His long view of both the genuine phenomenon and the human-made phenomenon provides unique insight into the subject. His research results indicate the intelligence behind the phenomenon is interacting with both crop circle researchers and many of the people who make the hoaxes.

He has publicly stated since the late 1980s, that the phenomenon indicates a future period of human chaos. The period indicated, supported by current trends, can be changed with human awareness. He also believes there are serious eco-political implications and that the future direction of the planet is at the center of the phenomenon.

In the final analysis Andrews believes the phenomenon is challenging people to a higher level of consciousness.

Some native elders agree with Colin’s assessment which is supported by the 2012 Mayan Prophecy. His latest book, written with his wife, The Complete Idiots Guide to 2012 covers this connection.

Colin’s 25-year investigation continues with growing urgency for openness and honesty in government and private research, respect for divergent opinions, and co-operation between investigators in all areas.

Colin is an accomplished professional photographer, who has been invited to show his photographs in art galleries across the United States, including the Philadelphia Art Museum and the Cortland Jessup Art Gallery in Provincetown, Cape Cod. One spectacular photograph of Princess Diana and Prince Charles on their honeymoon was presented to the Queen and to this day also hangs in the Mayors Parlour at Romsey, England – the home town of Prince Charles uncle, Lord Louis Mountbatten of Burma.

Colin Andrews is an electrical engineer by profession and was a principle official in British Regional Government during the 1970s and 80s.  He became involved in the crop circle mystery in 1983 when he saw an arrangement of five circles in a wheat field near Winchester, England. Intrigued by the engineering aspects, he began investigating the circles with Pat Delgado, a retired NASA engineer and Busty Taylor a light aircraft pilot.

During his years of research he advised Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher’s cabinet on the mystery, supervised the largest crop circle surveillance project in 1990 named “Operation Blackbird,” and amassed the largest data base in the world on the subject. Operation Blackbird was an effort to film a genuine crop circle forming. It was sponsored by BBC and Nippon television and was authorized to take place on Ministry of Defense land and with British Army assistance.

In 1996 Colin was asked by Laurance Rockefeller to provide information for the Rockefeller Initiative.  The Initiative provided the United States government with the “best available evidence” regarding UFOs with the purpose of opening public dialogue. Colin continued to receive funding in 1999 from Laurance Rockefeller to conduct a two year investigation into crop circle hoaxing. He put together a team who studied the construction patterns of man-made crop circles that had been commissioned by various commercial and media interests. In addition, members of his team infiltrated several circle-making groups uncovering new information regarding the level of anomalous phenomena experienced by the hoaxers while making circles.

Using man-made circles as a base, Andrews studied the formations that appeared in England throughout 1999 and 2000. His research data brought him to the unpleasant conclusion that 80% of all the circles he studied showed “unassailable” signs of being man-made. The remaining 20% showed all the signs of being part of the genuine phenomenon he had encountered 20 years earlier.

The publication of this data was largely rejected at the time. Today, the majority of honest, unbiased researchers have come to believe the truth of Colin’s assessment.

Colin and his wife, Synthia have traveled around the world meeting with indigenous leaders, seeking to understand the larger picture of the crop circle phenomenon.

Colins website: http://colinandrews.net.

Here is a few videos from YouTube …

 

Be sure to tune into the show tonight at http://www.blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight at 9pm MST. We will see ya’ll there!

 



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Greetings and Salutations One and All! Well it’s been quite the exciting week this week all the way around! So many dynamics in play this week it’s been very exciting! I do hope you are all keeping warm who are in the arctic storms this week! I myself am next to the fireplace typing this blog entry!

This month we are going to be airing live from the L.A. Conscious Life Expo at the Hilton LAX Feb 11-14th! In honor of that we are interviewing several keynote speakers from that conference! I hope that you guys can get out to this thing! It’s inexpensive and there will be hundreds of speakers and vendors at this thing! It’s so well worth getting there if you can! This is a conglomeration of some of the biggest names in the business! So come on down! You can purchase advanced tickets for the event at www.consciouslifeexpo.com .

So last month we had Dr. Steven Greer, this month we open our spotlight with an amazingly dynamic lady who will get you fired up! Her name is Dale Allen! Her lecture will be on Sunday evening at 6pm discussing “In Our Right Minds”.

Dale Allen has been described as “a living Goddess, a bright light, a messanger, a teacher, a storyteller who was born to be listened to!”   She has brought her talents to scores of audiences – nationwide and from Kauai to Dubai, with her one-woman show, In Our Right Minds™, A Celebration of Women, the Sacred Feminine and the Right Brain.

Ms. Allen is a veteran of corporate and commercial communications.  Her extensive resume includes hundreds of voice-over, on-camera and live presentation projects.  Some of the most quality conscious companies, such as BMW, General Electric, and Canon among others, have chosen her to represent their brands.   She is an accomplished lecturer, workshop facilitator, playwright and theatrical actress.  Described as having the energy of “a Cape Canaveral lift-off” she thoroughly engages and inspires her audience, which ranges from highly educated corporate leaders to teenage girls seeking their place in the world.

dale@daleallenproductions.com

You can learn more about Dale at www.inourrightminds.com or http://www.daleallenproductions.com.

Here is some YouTube footage of our guest tonight!

Be sure to tune into the show tonight on blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight! 9pm MST!



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          We are honored to have the amazing Nancy Brown Joining us to talk about her passion, her life, her mission. Full Moon Farm is an organization dedicated to the well being of the wolfdog (wolf hybrid). Situated on 17 beautiful mountain acres in Black Mountain, NC, we operate as a federally recognized 501(c)(3) not-for-profit organization for abused and refused wolfdogs who find themselves in need of love, shelter, and care through no fault of their own.

         Full Moon Farm provides a safe haven for animals that cannot be placed into homes for the rest of their lives. Their rescued wolfdogs come from animal control agencies, closed breeding situations and occasionally, an owner in crisis. They evaluate each animal upon intake and work with them at their level of comfort. Some animals are “hands off” and they respect their choice, as well as that of the animals that crave human interaction. Their goal is to enrich the lives of the residents, allowing them to reach their highest potential. Support by donation or sponsorship makes that task possible. Though they may be abused or neglected, homeless because of death or divorce, they are all God’s Creatures and worthy of a lifetime of respect. Don’t miss this amazing woman and the beautiful and awsome animals that she dedicates herself to rescue hear her inspiring story this Tuesday on http://www. BlogTalkRadio.com/Illuminationsoflight at 8pmPST, 9PMST
         Nancy recently appeared on the Lifetime Channel, On the Road with Austin and Santino – http://www.mylifetime.com/shows/on-the-road-with-austin-santino/video/full-episodes/season-1/episode-13-pawty-time. Also, wolfdogs were featured in an article on Zootoo – http://www.zootoo.com/zootootv/v/petpulse640wolfdogmyths2  Full Moon Farm is on Facebook – Please support the Cause – Full Moon Farm. We need you.  http://apps.facebook.com/causes/279502  Join our Group:  http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=25616163419  Full Moon Farm is on Youtube as well, but the video request must be entered as Full Moon Farm + wolf dogs, as there is another Full Moon Farm and it deals with horses.
        DON’T MISS THIS AMAZING WOMAN  and the beautiful and noble  animals that she dedicates herself to rescue. Hear her inspiring story this Tuesday November 23, 2010 on Illuminations Of Light Live! at 8 PM PST, 9PM MST on www.BlogTalkRadio.Com/Illuminationsoflight

 

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Our Own Petitelion Has Some Wisdom About How To Deal With Loneliness!!!

 By: Lianna Giovannoni

      It is highly improbable that anyone ever would decide to wake up one morning and declare to the universe to God “Let there be loneliness! Please God bless with the miracle of loneliness or ask for loneliness as they wish upon a star! Loneliness is not an item on anybodies “bucket list”( things they want to experience before they die) No loneliness is not one of those things that people find and are willing to die for or take an oath for ,devote their lives to. It is never included in a small child’s silent prayer before bedtime. There are no monuments, walls, plaques, etc. that have been erected in honor of loneliness, no encouraging or patriotic or devoted slogans for loneliness(Give me Loneliness or give me Death!LOL).Loneliness is relegated to stories and poems and those are referred to as tragedies or tragic poems.(Dictionary meaning: a medieval narrative poem or tale typically describing downfall of a someone. or a story,poem or play that ends in some misfortune., a serious drama typically describing a conflict between the protagonist and a superior force (as destiny) and having a sorrowful or disastrous conclusion that elicits pity or terror , the literary genre of tragic dramas, a disastrous event ( calamity misfortune). Yes, there are poems and stories etc. that use lonely or loneliness to describe something like the look of a tree or the sound of bird, like ” the only thing on this remote mountain were just clouds and lonely pines, or the only thing that could be heard in the dark was the lonely call of the owl”. The use of lonely or loneliness as a descriptor is probably one of it’s most positive attributes.

     Loneliness is worse than sad. Sad is an integer to the formula of loneliness, such as sad+(bleakness/desolate/alone)= loneliness or sadness x 2=loneliness….in other words lonely has sad in it. It is a darkness that eats you from the inside out.

     Alone is not lonely…Alone just means that you do not have company. Whereas lonely is an constant ache of absence, one that even if you are surrounded by people you feel isolated, alone, bleak, desolate, imprisoned by some invisible wall. Loneliness lays dormant in everyone of us waiting for the right catalyst to wake it up and begin to thrive and grow. There are an infinite amount of catalysts out there, as many as their are feeling creatures and beings in the universe. No one or no living feeling, thinking, being or creature is immune. Although some seem not to suffer from it’s grip as much but they do not have a complete immunity. I’ve even seen pets express loneliness and sorrow, like when on owner dies or when another of the household animals die or leave. I, personally watched with my pets this , we had a male and a female Siamese cats that were pretty much raised together, and when the slightly older male passed away,the female literally cried, would not eat, and even pulled out big patches of her own fur out. She would go each day for weeks to each of the heat register looking for him (for the last 3 years or so of the male cat Robert had a touch of arthritis and would lay on those to loosen his stiff muscles in the morning or when it was very cold weather) she would look for him and she would see he was not there, she would look up at me with such a sadness in her eyes and in her body language and she would let a sad wail that sounded almost like a young woman crying out in loneliness, despair. It was heart wrenching, she would not let anyone console her or touch her.

     Loneliness can not only come from loosing someone thru death, or absence but from a perception that no one can understand or relate to you or that you don’t fit in for some perceived belief or story that you told yourself that somehow you are different or less than and that no one is there that wants or would desire to share life with you experiencing all of life’s ups and downs, no one to share the joys and sorrows, no one that would or could understand you or would share or care the same opinion as to what you consider significant. That there would no one to make memories with that you can share together later no one to enjoy the little things in life with. Sometimes when there is a loss of a person you life such as a life partner, husband/wife or a best friend that you shared all of those things with for a long time, when they are no longer in your life due to death or a breakup because of that loss and the grief that comes from that it may seem to you that you will never be able to find anyone to fill that space in life the void left from those kinds of loss can create such a deep grief that it creates a wall of despair and an over the top feeling alone. Because of that deep loss because of the grief a very pervasive and unique type of loneliness ensues and nothing or no one will be able to change that sense of aloneness the grief of the loss the darkness the sadness that is gripping you, except for going thru your grieving process and the healing effect of time.

     Loneliness can also awaken and grow when you feel so different from those around you that you convince yourself to believe that there will never be anyone for you. You can experience and create a prison of loneliness when you perceive that an impenetrable barrier exists between you and everyone else due to language and/or cultural differences or you moved to a new area where you don’t know anyone or if you suddenly get ill or disabled or anything that you perceive as a barrier between you and other people.

     First of all like I mentioned before, alone is not lonely. A lot of times, alone is what is preferred,wanted and sometimes what is needed. It is important to be comfortable with your own company and to be confident that you are a complete whole individual rather than feeling that you are not enough or that you are incomplete. Sometimes alone is necessary for your mental and/or physical well being. Alone gives us the best way to get perspective for yourself to gain clarity on life decisions , be alone with your thoughts gives us time to meditate, process things or events, gives the opportunity to quiet the chatter of your conscious mind to reduce stress, connect with your higher self or with the Higher power, to ground yourself,or just to have sometime to not be distracted or influenced by others to just to get to know your true nature without any input from others.

     Back to lonely now….First of all I want to say “YOU ARE NOT YOUR EMOTIONS YOU ARE NOT YOUR STORY! AND ALWAYS BE PRESENT!”. Having made those statements I want you to understand that I will be clarifying those shortly, so just keep them in your mind to the side. It will come together just bear with me thank you. What I am about to say can be applied to any emotional response but we are discussing lonely at the moment so if you find yourself asking the question “what about sad, or anxious just substitute the appropriate word for the word lonely okay? So here goes nothing!! Lonely is an emotion that you tied to the story you told yourself or bought into from someone else that your ego told to respond with to with the current situation that you seem to be experiencing at the present time. If we realize before you respond to the ego’s advice that all the emotions is just a list of emotional responses that you have available to choose from as the emotional response to the situations that you perceive you are experiencing as you move thru each moment in your life. Yes Virginia “YOU CHOOSE WHAT EMOTION YOU WANT TO FEEL in response to your perception of the reality of the situation that you are experiencing ” not the other way around. I know right now most of you are saying to yourself (I can’t help what I feel, I control what I feel they just happen, they just are! Yes, I know it may seem that way, because most of us for most of our lives our ego and all the other egos that you have been around throughout your life from the time of your birth, the ones you learned from and emulated as you were growing up have led you to believe (thru no fault of their own) and reinforced over and over one of the great human untruth list is that “We are at the mercy of our emotions” That they own you, they are calling the shots as to your emotional responses. Well guess what? That is the human ego’s ploy to get you to keep you believing that it is real so it can continue to exist and be in control keep you trapped by fear which creates resistance to soul expansion and to create a prison, to put a barrier to blind you to the truth so to speak and continue to buy into the falsehood, the false perception of the reality of your true nature, to state that plainly… to continue the illusion of “That you are at the mercy of your emotions and the story you tied them to, that you don’t have a choice in the matter”! Now, I’m not saying that people and situations, and old programs that you bought into for one reason or another don’t make it hard to choose a more positive emotional response. Let me just briefly give you a side note to this. I want you to understand that with the aforementioned “old programs that you bought into” It is nobody’s fault that you bought into that there was some wrong doing or error in discernment or that you are “stupid and should have known better!”, that is not it at all. It is just one of those human challenges that all of face so that we learn and grow and evolve. It is built into the system of the human process of growth. No one is exempt, no one has the knack or talent to not buy into old programming, because when you bought into them they were necessary for your survival at the moment but once they are loaded onto your hard drive it is difficult to know when or to remember to delete them. Know this “EVERYONE IS CHALLENGED BY THIS AND HAS THE SAME DIFFICULTY AS YOU IT IS JUST PART OF LIFE!” so “DON’T BEAT YOURSELF UP FOR IT PLEASE”!!!! It is just one of those things that is a standard catalysts for all beings to challenge us to learn and adjust and change things in the present so that we can have the opportunity to expand our souls, evolve as spiritual beings having a human experience. Bottom line,it is just part of life!Just like when we grew to adults from being children the average person’s bones lengthen and grow larger, and in puberty we get hair in places that we didn’t have as children, it is just part of becoming, well so is the program buying into thing. Again you are not your story nor are you your emotions. Anyone who tries to tell you or convince differently ….This is what I have to say to them….QUACK! Yes quack! Check this out, your emotions are yours! Yes folks, those puppies are yours to command! Yes, you too can choose what to feel as a response to stuff! Like I said before things, situations and people may make it more difficult to choose a positive emotional response, but with some effort and practice you can do it. As with anything that you learn, especially when it comes to changing old habits, old programs that we have used forever that really in the present do not serve us anymore it takes a minute to become successful at right away. Be patient with yourself do your best to remember to make the effort to slow yourself down, take a breath and as you do this stop the auto pilot decision making process and stop and take the time to think and ask yourself,”How can I stay in the present and choose a best emotional response for what I am truly experiencing now?…not based on what you responded to a similar story from your past that ego is trying to convince you still are but, on who you truly are from you true nature, from your high self, now in this present moment.With the intent of doing it for the highest good for yourself and the highest good of all. It does get easier as you go along and each time you remember to do this the closer you come to do it effortlessly and with a 100% success rate, and really you will be surprised that it will happen easier and quicker than you think! You may be asking yourself,” well how does this apply to loneliness? ” well, I will tell you. When you sense it creeping in and ego begins it’s existence saving dance running it’s jib in your head, trying to convince you to buy into it’s sales pitch. Take the time to look at the story or thought processes or beliefs behind why you are leaning towards choosing lonely as your emotional response, why this emotion is tied to the story why the ego is trying to convince you that this is the response that you need so desperately(from ego’s perspective) to respond with, why this present situation triggered ego to know it is time to get it’s licks in, why ego needs you to respond this way, what is ego’s motive and how this particular? response helps ego to maintain it’s illusionary existence? Ego is like when you were a kid and you had an imaginary friend that keeps sabotaging and causing trouble and because no one else can see them you get blamed for it’s pervasive behavior. Ego like the imaginary friend is forever trying to convince you that it is real, like Pinocchio before the fairy godmother got to him-he is not real and never will be , he will only able to fool you into thinking it is real and that you are the puppet! Well it is time to take back your throne be the ruler of your reality! It is time to pinch yourself and wake up and see that you aren’t the puppet and ego the puppeteer that you are the master puppeteer and ego is the wooden puppet! You are the creator and the master and ruler of your emotions and ego, they are to do your bidding, they are your subjects and not subject to them! When you are suffering with loneliness or that the situation that you are participating in is one that perhaps the all time best scenario for loneliness to thrive and grow and in the present moment you are not able to see a way out from your current perspective reality, that there could no other choice for you. Stop and without hesitation but with complete faith that no matter what things seem like it is truly an illusion do not believe it for one second!!!!!Tell loneliness to get out of town take a long walk off a short pier, take a hike! Turn and face it and see that it is just an illusion. Find your voice… use your imagination and create for yourself a much better reality for yourself by pulling yourself out of the illusion and create the new true perception of reality in your mind. Realize that emotions and stories come and go. Nothing stays the same, things change all the time, nothing is static. Even if it seems to you that it is the lowest worst moment of loneliness of sadness in the world and that is no way out of it could never ever change…Stop, breath, look at the story behind all of that fear, all the loneliness that you tied to that story, or belief/thoughts that aren’t you , are not in the present not your true nature, just not real and pull yourself out of your illusionary perspective and change your perspective to one that serves you better in this present moment, even if it is to incorporate this thought, It won’t be like this forever it will change because nothing is static. Maybe Close your eyes and hold on to that little bit and release the emotion(loneliness) as the emotional response to the present perspective of the situation . Say out loud if you want or just think it, it works either way, it is your coloring book your crayons, I Release it , let it go – then look at some other more positive way to perceive the situation as to why you are experiencing this based purely in the present moment from your true highest self change it to perhaps as an example: Maybe if I see this as something as this situation isn’t about choosing this to be bad but rather a gift of the opportunity to find a better way see this situation as a plus rather than a negative, an opportunity to gain than a loss, that it is for you not against you. you could change this into you have the opportunity to become a hero and to receive blessings by sacrificing and experiencing a little discomfort so that someone else will get an opportunity to get the chance to expand their soul their skill sets raise their vibration by getting a chance at to allow someone their chance to discern and choose to be compassionate, to recognize that one of their own needs their help , to motivate them to learn to be a better expression of God having a human experience, by motivating them to choose to become a more loving kind person, awaken them to their true nature, more of a true human being and discern and choose love and compassion recognize it is the time to give and transform themselves and receive blessings and grace which raises their vibration which raises the vibration of all humans. For your small sacrifice you not only do you get to be a hero and give someone a chance to receive blessings you get the chance to raise the whole humanity but you get to receive blessings and grace and to raise your self up which also does the same for all. So the point is look how much can be accomplished, look at the scope of the effect of just a small change in the way you choose to see things, change your perception of reality and your emotional response to things. It is so a win win win win situation for such a small amount of effort that it is just mind boggling for me. What a small thing to have to experience or that you have to put effort to accomplish so much.

So by changing in ways like this, taking that pause that moment, to slow down take that breath and adjust your perception of reality, let the old programming that no longer serves you go and eliminate that the loneliness story is tied to and choose a more positive emotional response to the present situation you become a big hero and everyone gets blessings.

     There are many surface ways to help you to accomplish these things to help with the changing your perceptions of reality of situations that you are experiencing with loneliness and it’s fertile ground for growth. Yes, surface ways, like joining a class that improves you, your body, your mind like yoga, or a class at your local junior college or something that you would like to see if it is something you might be interested in, there are many avenues for this such as local city town or rural community centers that offer adult classes at night or weekends etc. for things like arts and crafts, exercise, or dance, music, Internet and computer, parenting, golf, yoga and so on. These are good ways to break down some of the perceived barriers and to connect and meet people with similar interests. This a good way for humans to help prevent that fertile ground for loneliness. Some other surface ways are to join a spiritual group, or join a church or religious group of your own choice and persuasion, or create your own group of your choosing such as rock hunting, paranormal group, science, book reading, or whatever subject matter that floats your boat because I guarantee you aren’t alone in your interests. If you are sure how to find those people for the group[ you want to create, here are some tried and true suggestions for that issue. Advertise on your local bulletin boards in your local grocery stores etc, community centers, church and meeting centers, community colleges and adult education centers, freebie newspapers , or on the Internet sites like Facebook and Twitter or Crisis type sites. Volunteer for various charities in your community. If language is a barrier go to your local community centers and adult education centers or churches or spiritual centers and take a class in the pertinent language and from there you will find people with similar language barriers as you. If it is cultural thing, learn about the culture that you are living in, expand your being with knowledge and truth and with the knowledge you can understanding and release the fear and encourage tolerance in yourself and others or teach others about the truth of your culture which also helps others to release ignorance and fear and allows tolerance and compassion an understanding to grow. This not only helps to ward off the loneliness thing but it raises the vibrations for all. If you are disabled or are not able to go out and about, create a group that again is something that you are interested in or create a social network group of disabled or inside bound people or if you are elderly and are homebound etc. this social network group is applicable also, you can connect thru phone, or the Internet or something like Skype which is free thru the computer and you can have several people be able to meet virtually without ever leaving there residences. If you are able to each get an Internet video cameras for your computers you can actually see each other. Nowadays those kinds of things are fairly inexpensive and there are various federal, state and local programs that could help you. Don’t give up if you want to help yourself to choose something more positive this is a real good tried and true way to begin that process.When we take the initiative and realize we are the creators of our realities and do these little things it reaffirms to the universe what you want and need it is like an active prayer, it reaches into the Creator’s toy box and pulls out and brings to you the thing you want that is for highest good which with that intent brings the highest good of all. It brings the real magic that is in us by our birthright as the children of God. What it does, to put it another way, it allows you to connect and have the opportunity to find and share with you fellow human beings common interests and it changes the parameters of the situation and brings in the fertile ground for growth for the positive, breaks down your perception that there are barriers and replaces the barriers with clear smooth avenues to accomplish what just recently you perceived as impossible. This will make the growth of the possibility of loneliness less of a possibility to happen. I’m not saying it will eliminate it altogether at this moment of our existence but it will take it from a high and impossible to get over mountain to in the least a small hill that you face and if enough of us take this perspective it will a some point become a mere speed bump. It is however a step closer for all of us one day to make something that has been highly improbable to eliminate from the human experience to be eliminated within the human experience. All it takes is one person to tell or show one person and it will catch on and once again you can know that YOU ARE A HERO!

      So to recap for you, “You are not your story nor are you your emotions. Become aware and notice the story, the thoughts, the beliefs, the perception of reality that loneliness (or any negative emotions) that you have tied to those stories or beliefs. Release it. Take the moment to pause and take a breath ,and stop and think and decide and become aware change your perception of the reality of the situation, be present and choose the best positive emotional response ( and the list of all the positive is available for you to choose all the time with no exceptions!) based on who you truly are in the present moment. Play with them and discern the best one that serves you highest good and the highest good of all. Then congratulations are in order because you are now on the best and fastest road to becoming a hero in your own right to making loneliness(and if you apply that mind set to sad, despair, etc it will do the same for those) all those painful soul expanding and suffering causing catalyst for humanity evolving cease to exist in this current human experience(at minimize them enough that they are speed bumps instead of impossible to climb over mountains). For sure it is a fact it help you when it is your turn to experience those painful moments, you will be able to move thru them with the greatest of ease and grace and receive blessings for yourself and all humanity.

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