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Greetings and Salutations One and All! Welcome to this week’s blog close up on our amazing guest! She worked with Mother Theresa for years in Calcutta and has formed numerous foundations and is most recently focusing her work on healing through food! So without further adieu here is a bit more about our lovely guest tonight!

ReikiGuru Jyotika is an internationally renowned Sensei/ Healer of USUI Japan and a certified Ayurvedic Health Prefessional  from Maharishi University of Ayurveda..She is the performer of world’s first cosmetic surgery with Reiki and many miraculous cures, and has been featured in the press and TV media worldwide.
Jyotika has served as the chairperson (eastern countries) of the intl. society for Autistic children for 3 consecutive years.
She has worked in close contact with Rev. Mother Teresa since the age of 16, helping the lepers, the old and the sick.It is therefore not surprising that today she is extending her’ healing touch’ to releive pain and suffering of all kinds.
As a tribute to her own Healing work, Jyotika chose the auspicious day of Gurupurnima, last month, to launch with her son, JJ Prashant, Ayur Ras Healing Foods, a pure, fresh and organic Indian cuisine line based on the principles of Ayurveda.

So be sure to join us tonight for what promises to be a very interesting interview with this incredible lady! Join us at 9pmMST on blotalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight and to find out more about our guest and her products and services visit; http://reikiguru-us.com/

or www.ayurras.com

 

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Greetings and Salutations One and All! Tomorrow night we have an amazing treat for all of you! The phenomenal team from the new hit internet television show ” Prophet or Madman”. This team will have you in stitches from the first moment! Crazy and fun guys with a great concept, and Ice-Cream Man having conversations with god! They are totally conscious! They are totally hysterical! And they are right on time! Come and find out who these two veterans of the entertainment industry are and what their latest project is all about! Read on to find out more about their backrounds and about the show!

Who are these wild and crazy guys! Steve Allen, a legend in his own time!

Steve Allen  … Actor … Co-Exective Producer … Co-Creator of the web series

Steve Allen boasts an 18-year career as a public relations executive during which time he has been either a founder or co-founder of four different media communications companies, Allen Mora Media, Enlightened Innertainment, and Talkaboutable Media.  His duties have included promoting and overseeing over 100 public relations campaigns, designing and developing ideas for clients, managing their careers and promoting clients’ images on local and national levels.  Steve is currently directing his own bi-coastal public relations firm, with offices in Los Angeles, San Francisco and New York, which specializes in promoting material of an educating, stimulating and enlightening nature. http://www.SteveAllenMedia.com

He also had a career prior to the PR world in the world of the performing arts.  Steve was an actor and director. His theatrical works appeared on the stages of the Steppenwolf Theatre and Goodman Theatre in Chicago, the off Broadway theaters of New York, and numerous regional theaters of the U.S. and Canada..  Steve’s claim to fame in the world of television is his portrayal as the Father of the Ugly Baby character on The Seinfeld Show. He is a happily married man, with 4 grown chilren. Along his continued awakening journey, Steve can be heard often saying to his pals … “I am coming home more often and staying longer”.

Then we have the amazing Bruce Adams….

Bruce Adams … Featured performer in the web series, author of the book Prophet or Madman

Bruce Adams is neither a theologian, a Bible scholar, a pastor, nor a teacher.  In fact, he is now an ice-cream man.  He was a successful businessman for some 25 years before he had the surprise of his life.  On a Saturday morning in 1996, when Bruce was poised to launch a potentially huge moneymaking machine, he took his 9-year-old son, Michael, ice-skating.  “There I was, gliding along, listening to the music…when all of a sudden, something happened.  The music, as well as the sound of the people, seemed to fall silent, just as if I had become temporarily deaf.  The next thing I heard was a voice.  This voice was unlike anything I had ever heard in the past.  It seemed to be not limited to my mind, but dimensional.  By this, I mean that it was both internal and audible at the same time.  I did not know how to take what was happening to me, especially when I saw that I was being given specific instructions to change the direction of my life.  I was being told to forego this million dollar business project  because there was something else I had to do.”

Thereafter, Bruce began a regimen of daily meditation.  His perception of life was drastically changed, and was replaced with something far different.  “Life, it seemed, was taking on new meaning.  Faith that there was something more was replaced with direct experience.”  Then one night ” I was sleeping and unaware of anything that was going on in my dream state, when I experienced something that made the voice I heard earlier seem trivial in comparison.  The best I can describe it is to say that I felt wide-awake, yet I knew that my body was resting.  I was both in the body and outside it.  I could think, but there was no need to.  I saw myself, for lack of a better word, as a formless consciousness.  Where was I?  There was nothing familiar about this place, because it had no form, and at the same time there was the sensation of comfort.  It was like the feeling of comfort you have in the safety of your own home….In that moment, I became aware of the whole of Creation as one presence.  Upon coming back into my thinking mind, I recall being told to write about what I had experienced.  I jumped out of bed and got my pad and pen”.   The book Prophet or Madman was the amazing result.

then there is the third party to this trio …..

Chris Johnson … Executive Producer and Co-Creator of the web series

I’ve been an ordained minister for forty four years now, so you’d think I’d know a thing or two about these spiritual matters.  On the contrary, the deepest profundity I’ve been able to manage is to try to live my life in accordance with the Golden Rule.  So that’s what I do and have advised others to do through my social work as a founder of the National Optimists Party.  Yet on a personal level, the fact of the matter is that while, over time, I’ve found myself with an increasing sense of awe and reverence for the magnificence of creation, I’ve experienced a receding sense of understanding and familiarity with the Creator.  Imagine my good fortune to run into Bruce Adams, a fine soul whose ears are directly attuned to the Creator’s frequency.  I’m looking forward to learning a lot and enjoying myself immensely as I join Bruce and my good friend Steve on our lighthearted spiritual journey all across this great land looking for the soul of America.

Check out some video clips from the show’s page….

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Love n Light,

Kimberly


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Amoraea Dreamseed has been facilitating transformational experiences for over 8 years throughout the United States. His personal shamanic awakenings and inner initiations with Cosmic Master Teachers and Direct Source have opened his channels to create a unique synthesis of healing and activation. Each of Amoraea’s group ceremonies and seminars are an exploration and embodiment of The Divine Human and the conscious transformation of the Species. Lightbody Breathwork, Sound vibrational healing with didgeridoo and crystal singing bowls, guided visualizations and meditations, activation of the Tantric/Pranic lightflows in the subtle bodies, and higher dimensional awareness are just some of the tools Amoraea offers in his group ceremonies and Sacred Containers. His core principle teaching is the intimate marriage of ones Sacred Heart with Source Creation. All are invited to imbibe in the Chalice of Divine Presence through Amoraeas work. Private sessions are also available for those wishing all of the above plus direct hands-on healing.
Amoraeas training in Human Bio-Energetics through his Reiki Mastership and Quantum Touch certifications provide a foundation for interfacing Spirit into the Mind-Body Matrix. These teachings have been further rounded out by his initiations in the Dolphin Star Temple Mystery School through master teacher Amorah Quan Yin, where he was trained in Full Sensory Perception, psychic reading / healing, and clearing of the KA body. He has also completed various courses with International Soul Seminar Teacher Ilona Selke on activating Soul Awareness States, Living From Vision, and Tantra of the Soul. Intensive Self-studies in Quantum dynamics, sacred geometry, and ancient sciences complete his comprehensive wisdom and application of the Life Principle in the Awakening of the Divine Human. Amoraeas synthesis of these principles is also at the core of his visionary art and musical compositions, which provide light and sound portals into the Geomancy of the Soul.

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I want to talk to you about accountability and  one of the things that as a being that is working towards evolving and expanding our souls  and becoming a higher vibration being, one of the practices we should practice in our lives consistently is accountability.What do I mean by accountability? Well, the dictionary meaning to be accountable for or have accountability about is: the act of being responsible for or liable for or the act of accepting the  true explanation or the true reason for. This applied to the human experience means to take responsibility for to be liable for your actions. To be willing to own your part in of the explanation of something that took place, the explanation result of something that said or lead someone to believe you did or were going to do.Be willing to stand by your choices and take ownership to your part for something that occurred  or that we said or lead to believe we would be responsible for doing in this dance we call life. In my mind there is one more step that in my opinion should be included once you are willing to acknowledge the responsibility and ownership for your actions and their part in things said and done, that in addition you should be willing to take and to deal with integrity, the consequences ,good or bad,  of those choices and/or actions. This accountability that I speak of is something that should be taken as part of the parameters that should be included when discerning your choices,  We should,also, apply those same parameters that should be considered before we tell others or lead others to believe, we will do, as well. We need to look at and consider,to the best of our ability, the scope of the effects that our choices of what we say and do could have, before following and acting upon those choices. This is, in my mind, what human accountability means.

Now that you know what I mean when I say that as humans we should practice accountability. I would like to share with you some of the far reaching negative effects or affects of when humans do not practice accountability that I have found and how some of these negative results were able to come to fruition and also the negative and sometimes possible lethal consequences of this lack of accountability caused to someone that should not have experienced. Firstly,I want to state that all of us like to be the hero of the story our own and everyone else story too. That really is not going to happen because for each person there is a hero, and they are, every single one of them, competing for that title of “Everybody in the entire universe’s hero”. So the most we can hope for,that is available, is to be a hero of your sphere of reality and that, with effort and diligence and focus can be phenomenal! Having said that, trying to continually and stubbornly trying to always maintain the hero status even when we aren’t saying, acting or doing hero like stuff,  is one of the things we have to help our to keep our ego in check with. This is one of the main challenges along a few others, that we face while we are working at practicing accountability. Another one is that old and big gun of the dark, (drum roll please), fear!!! Well I got a bit off track, back to some examples of what can be a negative result or fallout to innocent bystanders when people do not practice accountability. Here are a few example showing mild to lethal, these are ones that I have either experienced or witnessed myself. The first one is a mild one, the second scenario shows how it could have been much  worse, we’ve all experienced this one, I had mad e an appointment with an appliance repair fellow as my refrigerator had begun to make bad noises on a Friday late afternoon, but I was not made aware of it before it was too late to call for repair, and by Saturday late morning the fridge part had stopped working and that evening the freezer was sinking fast. I called on Saturday and tried to get a repair person, after several tries I got a hold of someone who of course the soonest was Monday morning but he was able to give some info that would save my fridge from being totally fried until then. Monday is rather hectic as it is the day before our show so I am running here and there, but that day I had to rearrange everything to move my out of the house appointments to the late afternoon. So when Monday morning arrived I sat there waiting for the repairperson, they said that they would be there between 8 am and 1 pm, I waited and I waited , nothing. I called the office and left a message at 12:30 pm. I didn’t get a hold of anyone until 1:45 when they informed me that their tech was sick and they had rescheduled me for Friday(which was totally unacceptable it was my fridge for God’s sake!) Just a note here: I wouldn’t have known the appointment had been canceled or changed unless I had called! Now it was simply inconvenient but if I hadn’t by pure luck called another repair person who just happened to have two repairs that had changed their minds and decided to purchase new appliances I wouldn’t have been able to get it fixed until Wednesday afternoon, and I had called every repair place in our yellow pages, by then my fairly new fridge that I got when my mother passed would have too costly to repair and I would have had to buy a new one which I could not afford as I had an important upcoming business 3 day expo thing that I had to attend that was out of town that I had to buy 2 roundtrip airline tickets and hotel for two for three days not to mention car, f ood etc, which was strapping in the first place and I was a month behind in my mortgage at the time (bad financial moment). If I would have had to buy a new fridge, I wouldn’t have made the expo and then I wouldn’t have met the contacts I did, and I would of been short on cash another month not been able to pay my mortgage that month either and I would have never been able to catch up which could instead of  just being one month behind in my house payments, it might have led to loosing my home, and all because the repair person did practice accountability. Now here is a simple lethal example of what could take place:something simple like not calling someone that you won’t be there to pick them so the person is late coming back to work because the person who said they would didn’t,and because the person was late lost their job, and that sent them over the edge and they committed suicide. I know that sounds erxtreme but, you would be surprised how many of those seemi ngly small acts of not practicing accountability have led to those extremes and in some cases probably led to all out war! This lack is not just about phone calls it is also about shifting blame for what you are really responsible for never taking responsibility for the outfall to others or making it about someone else which causes pain distress and even death at times. Remember the butterfly flapping on one side of the world causing disater on the other. Everythoing and everybody are connected and what you do or don’t do what you consider when you make choices effects and affects a way bigger picture than you can imagine, and if you expect others to practice accountability so do you and not just when you feel like it etc. Practicing accountability is not really that hard, and doing that not only saves others from suffering etc. it also helps keep us in check as to what we do and say because we know we are going top be accountable we have a tendency to act and choose with mo re thought and inpeccability, we think, choose,do, speak in a more honest manner especially if we are going to be accountable for what we think,choose,do, or say. When we do things more honestly our vibration aligns with the higher vibrations, and that’s a good thing for everyone.
I would like to make a statement to those that are saying to themselves,”I always take responsibility for my choices and my actions!”.If you do always, I commend you, but I suspect, if you look back there was at some point you didn’t. I just want to remind you that sometimes our scope of acceptance of that responsibility is limited as our ego has narrowed our scope to how big of a picture we are able to see, by convincing us that somehow we are justified in our or exempt from being accountable for ourselves etc. because of judgement of our fellow man as to there worthiness or that you are not accountable because the other person did something to us or others, or that the other person is”bad or evil” or that “they deserve whatever they get, that it’s alright because YOU as well as the general consensuses of “everyone” or the mythical “they” said so, or soc iety has by their opinion has made them less human that they do not nor do the effects on their life deserve to be even considered when we are discerning our choices, our accountability. We as humans, including myself, like our memories at times is selective. By definition if you want to live and act with integrity with impeccability to walk the true path of light, raise and align with the higher vibrational energies, we must act and be and choose to be accountable for our choices and actions no matter what, wether it is easy or comfortable or hard or difficult. To be accountable for your choices and actions of what you think, say, choose and do. It is about what YOU do, not about what others do, have done. To think, choose, act with accountability,that is something that has no exceptions, no gray area. Remember, when it is all said and done, when karma and/or dharma is considered by God and/or the universe, only you will answer for what yo u do, and others will be the only one to answer for what they do. In the end all of us who believe that the soul goes on forever in whatever way your belief system subscribes to, we will be at some point be held accountable for our choices and actions and no one else. So, it serves us best in reality to think, discern, choose, act with accountability to begin with, and of course, compassion, tolerance, love, understanding etc as well, all those positive and light filled high vibration things that make us really human.Love n Light….Petite Lion aka Lianna

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Our Own Petitelion Has Some Wisdom About How To Deal With Loneliness!!!

 By: Lianna Giovannoni

      It is highly improbable that anyone ever would decide to wake up one morning and declare to the universe to God “Let there be loneliness! Please God bless with the miracle of loneliness or ask for loneliness as they wish upon a star! Loneliness is not an item on anybodies “bucket list”( things they want to experience before they die) No loneliness is not one of those things that people find and are willing to die for or take an oath for ,devote their lives to. It is never included in a small child’s silent prayer before bedtime. There are no monuments, walls, plaques, etc. that have been erected in honor of loneliness, no encouraging or patriotic or devoted slogans for loneliness(Give me Loneliness or give me Death!LOL).Loneliness is relegated to stories and poems and those are referred to as tragedies or tragic poems.(Dictionary meaning: a medieval narrative poem or tale typically describing downfall of a someone. or a story,poem or play that ends in some misfortune., a serious drama typically describing a conflict between the protagonist and a superior force (as destiny) and having a sorrowful or disastrous conclusion that elicits pity or terror , the literary genre of tragic dramas, a disastrous event ( calamity misfortune). Yes, there are poems and stories etc. that use lonely or loneliness to describe something like the look of a tree or the sound of bird, like ” the only thing on this remote mountain were just clouds and lonely pines, or the only thing that could be heard in the dark was the lonely call of the owl”. The use of lonely or loneliness as a descriptor is probably one of it’s most positive attributes.

     Loneliness is worse than sad. Sad is an integer to the formula of loneliness, such as sad+(bleakness/desolate/alone)= loneliness or sadness x 2=loneliness….in other words lonely has sad in it. It is a darkness that eats you from the inside out.

     Alone is not lonely…Alone just means that you do not have company. Whereas lonely is an constant ache of absence, one that even if you are surrounded by people you feel isolated, alone, bleak, desolate, imprisoned by some invisible wall. Loneliness lays dormant in everyone of us waiting for the right catalyst to wake it up and begin to thrive and grow. There are an infinite amount of catalysts out there, as many as their are feeling creatures and beings in the universe. No one or no living feeling, thinking, being or creature is immune. Although some seem not to suffer from it’s grip as much but they do not have a complete immunity. I’ve even seen pets express loneliness and sorrow, like when on owner dies or when another of the household animals die or leave. I, personally watched with my pets this , we had a male and a female Siamese cats that were pretty much raised together, and when the slightly older male passed away,the female literally cried, would not eat, and even pulled out big patches of her own fur out. She would go each day for weeks to each of the heat register looking for him (for the last 3 years or so of the male cat Robert had a touch of arthritis and would lay on those to loosen his stiff muscles in the morning or when it was very cold weather) she would look for him and she would see he was not there, she would look up at me with such a sadness in her eyes and in her body language and she would let a sad wail that sounded almost like a young woman crying out in loneliness, despair. It was heart wrenching, she would not let anyone console her or touch her.

     Loneliness can not only come from loosing someone thru death, or absence but from a perception that no one can understand or relate to you or that you don’t fit in for some perceived belief or story that you told yourself that somehow you are different or less than and that no one is there that wants or would desire to share life with you experiencing all of life’s ups and downs, no one to share the joys and sorrows, no one that would or could understand you or would share or care the same opinion as to what you consider significant. That there would no one to make memories with that you can share together later no one to enjoy the little things in life with. Sometimes when there is a loss of a person you life such as a life partner, husband/wife or a best friend that you shared all of those things with for a long time, when they are no longer in your life due to death or a breakup because of that loss and the grief that comes from that it may seem to you that you will never be able to find anyone to fill that space in life the void left from those kinds of loss can create such a deep grief that it creates a wall of despair and an over the top feeling alone. Because of that deep loss because of the grief a very pervasive and unique type of loneliness ensues and nothing or no one will be able to change that sense of aloneness the grief of the loss the darkness the sadness that is gripping you, except for going thru your grieving process and the healing effect of time.

     Loneliness can also awaken and grow when you feel so different from those around you that you convince yourself to believe that there will never be anyone for you. You can experience and create a prison of loneliness when you perceive that an impenetrable barrier exists between you and everyone else due to language and/or cultural differences or you moved to a new area where you don’t know anyone or if you suddenly get ill or disabled or anything that you perceive as a barrier between you and other people.

     First of all like I mentioned before, alone is not lonely. A lot of times, alone is what is preferred,wanted and sometimes what is needed. It is important to be comfortable with your own company and to be confident that you are a complete whole individual rather than feeling that you are not enough or that you are incomplete. Sometimes alone is necessary for your mental and/or physical well being. Alone gives us the best way to get perspective for yourself to gain clarity on life decisions , be alone with your thoughts gives us time to meditate, process things or events, gives the opportunity to quiet the chatter of your conscious mind to reduce stress, connect with your higher self or with the Higher power, to ground yourself,or just to have sometime to not be distracted or influenced by others to just to get to know your true nature without any input from others.

     Back to lonely now….First of all I want to say “YOU ARE NOT YOUR EMOTIONS YOU ARE NOT YOUR STORY! AND ALWAYS BE PRESENT!”. Having made those statements I want you to understand that I will be clarifying those shortly, so just keep them in your mind to the side. It will come together just bear with me thank you. What I am about to say can be applied to any emotional response but we are discussing lonely at the moment so if you find yourself asking the question “what about sad, or anxious just substitute the appropriate word for the word lonely okay? So here goes nothing!! Lonely is an emotion that you tied to the story you told yourself or bought into from someone else that your ego told to respond with to with the current situation that you seem to be experiencing at the present time. If we realize before you respond to the ego’s advice that all the emotions is just a list of emotional responses that you have available to choose from as the emotional response to the situations that you perceive you are experiencing as you move thru each moment in your life. Yes Virginia “YOU CHOOSE WHAT EMOTION YOU WANT TO FEEL in response to your perception of the reality of the situation that you are experiencing ” not the other way around. I know right now most of you are saying to yourself (I can’t help what I feel, I control what I feel they just happen, they just are! Yes, I know it may seem that way, because most of us for most of our lives our ego and all the other egos that you have been around throughout your life from the time of your birth, the ones you learned from and emulated as you were growing up have led you to believe (thru no fault of their own) and reinforced over and over one of the great human untruth list is that “We are at the mercy of our emotions” That they own you, they are calling the shots as to your emotional responses. Well guess what? That is the human ego’s ploy to get you to keep you believing that it is real so it can continue to exist and be in control keep you trapped by fear which creates resistance to soul expansion and to create a prison, to put a barrier to blind you to the truth so to speak and continue to buy into the falsehood, the false perception of the reality of your true nature, to state that plainly… to continue the illusion of “That you are at the mercy of your emotions and the story you tied them to, that you don’t have a choice in the matter”! Now, I’m not saying that people and situations, and old programs that you bought into for one reason or another don’t make it hard to choose a more positive emotional response. Let me just briefly give you a side note to this. I want you to understand that with the aforementioned “old programs that you bought into” It is nobody’s fault that you bought into that there was some wrong doing or error in discernment or that you are “stupid and should have known better!”, that is not it at all. It is just one of those human challenges that all of face so that we learn and grow and evolve. It is built into the system of the human process of growth. No one is exempt, no one has the knack or talent to not buy into old programming, because when you bought into them they were necessary for your survival at the moment but once they are loaded onto your hard drive it is difficult to know when or to remember to delete them. Know this “EVERYONE IS CHALLENGED BY THIS AND HAS THE SAME DIFFICULTY AS YOU IT IS JUST PART OF LIFE!” so “DON’T BEAT YOURSELF UP FOR IT PLEASE”!!!! It is just one of those things that is a standard catalysts for all beings to challenge us to learn and adjust and change things in the present so that we can have the opportunity to expand our souls, evolve as spiritual beings having a human experience. Bottom line,it is just part of life!Just like when we grew to adults from being children the average person’s bones lengthen and grow larger, and in puberty we get hair in places that we didn’t have as children, it is just part of becoming, well so is the program buying into thing. Again you are not your story nor are you your emotions. Anyone who tries to tell you or convince differently ….This is what I have to say to them….QUACK! Yes quack! Check this out, your emotions are yours! Yes folks, those puppies are yours to command! Yes, you too can choose what to feel as a response to stuff! Like I said before things, situations and people may make it more difficult to choose a positive emotional response, but with some effort and practice you can do it. As with anything that you learn, especially when it comes to changing old habits, old programs that we have used forever that really in the present do not serve us anymore it takes a minute to become successful at right away. Be patient with yourself do your best to remember to make the effort to slow yourself down, take a breath and as you do this stop the auto pilot decision making process and stop and take the time to think and ask yourself,”How can I stay in the present and choose a best emotional response for what I am truly experiencing now?…not based on what you responded to a similar story from your past that ego is trying to convince you still are but, on who you truly are from you true nature, from your high self, now in this present moment.With the intent of doing it for the highest good for yourself and the highest good of all. It does get easier as you go along and each time you remember to do this the closer you come to do it effortlessly and with a 100% success rate, and really you will be surprised that it will happen easier and quicker than you think! You may be asking yourself,” well how does this apply to loneliness? ” well, I will tell you. When you sense it creeping in and ego begins it’s existence saving dance running it’s jib in your head, trying to convince you to buy into it’s sales pitch. Take the time to look at the story or thought processes or beliefs behind why you are leaning towards choosing lonely as your emotional response, why this emotion is tied to the story why the ego is trying to convince you that this is the response that you need so desperately(from ego’s perspective) to respond with, why this present situation triggered ego to know it is time to get it’s licks in, why ego needs you to respond this way, what is ego’s motive and how this particular? response helps ego to maintain it’s illusionary existence? Ego is like when you were a kid and you had an imaginary friend that keeps sabotaging and causing trouble and because no one else can see them you get blamed for it’s pervasive behavior. Ego like the imaginary friend is forever trying to convince you that it is real, like Pinocchio before the fairy godmother got to him-he is not real and never will be , he will only able to fool you into thinking it is real and that you are the puppet! Well it is time to take back your throne be the ruler of your reality! It is time to pinch yourself and wake up and see that you aren’t the puppet and ego the puppeteer that you are the master puppeteer and ego is the wooden puppet! You are the creator and the master and ruler of your emotions and ego, they are to do your bidding, they are your subjects and not subject to them! When you are suffering with loneliness or that the situation that you are participating in is one that perhaps the all time best scenario for loneliness to thrive and grow and in the present moment you are not able to see a way out from your current perspective reality, that there could no other choice for you. Stop and without hesitation but with complete faith that no matter what things seem like it is truly an illusion do not believe it for one second!!!!!Tell loneliness to get out of town take a long walk off a short pier, take a hike! Turn and face it and see that it is just an illusion. Find your voice… use your imagination and create for yourself a much better reality for yourself by pulling yourself out of the illusion and create the new true perception of reality in your mind. Realize that emotions and stories come and go. Nothing stays the same, things change all the time, nothing is static. Even if it seems to you that it is the lowest worst moment of loneliness of sadness in the world and that is no way out of it could never ever change…Stop, breath, look at the story behind all of that fear, all the loneliness that you tied to that story, or belief/thoughts that aren’t you , are not in the present not your true nature, just not real and pull yourself out of your illusionary perspective and change your perspective to one that serves you better in this present moment, even if it is to incorporate this thought, It won’t be like this forever it will change because nothing is static. Maybe Close your eyes and hold on to that little bit and release the emotion(loneliness) as the emotional response to the present perspective of the situation . Say out loud if you want or just think it, it works either way, it is your coloring book your crayons, I Release it , let it go – then look at some other more positive way to perceive the situation as to why you are experiencing this based purely in the present moment from your true highest self change it to perhaps as an example: Maybe if I see this as something as this situation isn’t about choosing this to be bad but rather a gift of the opportunity to find a better way see this situation as a plus rather than a negative, an opportunity to gain than a loss, that it is for you not against you. you could change this into you have the opportunity to become a hero and to receive blessings by sacrificing and experiencing a little discomfort so that someone else will get an opportunity to get the chance to expand their soul their skill sets raise their vibration by getting a chance at to allow someone their chance to discern and choose to be compassionate, to recognize that one of their own needs their help , to motivate them to learn to be a better expression of God having a human experience, by motivating them to choose to become a more loving kind person, awaken them to their true nature, more of a true human being and discern and choose love and compassion recognize it is the time to give and transform themselves and receive blessings and grace which raises their vibration which raises the vibration of all humans. For your small sacrifice you not only do you get to be a hero and give someone a chance to receive blessings you get the chance to raise the whole humanity but you get to receive blessings and grace and to raise your self up which also does the same for all. So the point is look how much can be accomplished, look at the scope of the effect of just a small change in the way you choose to see things, change your perception of reality and your emotional response to things. It is so a win win win win situation for such a small amount of effort that it is just mind boggling for me. What a small thing to have to experience or that you have to put effort to accomplish so much.

So by changing in ways like this, taking that pause that moment, to slow down take that breath and adjust your perception of reality, let the old programming that no longer serves you go and eliminate that the loneliness story is tied to and choose a more positive emotional response to the present situation you become a big hero and everyone gets blessings.

     There are many surface ways to help you to accomplish these things to help with the changing your perceptions of reality of situations that you are experiencing with loneliness and it’s fertile ground for growth. Yes, surface ways, like joining a class that improves you, your body, your mind like yoga, or a class at your local junior college or something that you would like to see if it is something you might be interested in, there are many avenues for this such as local city town or rural community centers that offer adult classes at night or weekends etc. for things like arts and crafts, exercise, or dance, music, Internet and computer, parenting, golf, yoga and so on. These are good ways to break down some of the perceived barriers and to connect and meet people with similar interests. This a good way for humans to help prevent that fertile ground for loneliness. Some other surface ways are to join a spiritual group, or join a church or religious group of your own choice and persuasion, or create your own group of your choosing such as rock hunting, paranormal group, science, book reading, or whatever subject matter that floats your boat because I guarantee you aren’t alone in your interests. If you are sure how to find those people for the group[ you want to create, here are some tried and true suggestions for that issue. Advertise on your local bulletin boards in your local grocery stores etc, community centers, church and meeting centers, community colleges and adult education centers, freebie newspapers , or on the Internet sites like Facebook and Twitter or Crisis type sites. Volunteer for various charities in your community. If language is a barrier go to your local community centers and adult education centers or churches or spiritual centers and take a class in the pertinent language and from there you will find people with similar language barriers as you. If it is cultural thing, learn about the culture that you are living in, expand your being with knowledge and truth and with the knowledge you can understanding and release the fear and encourage tolerance in yourself and others or teach others about the truth of your culture which also helps others to release ignorance and fear and allows tolerance and compassion an understanding to grow. This not only helps to ward off the loneliness thing but it raises the vibrations for all. If you are disabled or are not able to go out and about, create a group that again is something that you are interested in or create a social network group of disabled or inside bound people or if you are elderly and are homebound etc. this social network group is applicable also, you can connect thru phone, or the Internet or something like Skype which is free thru the computer and you can have several people be able to meet virtually without ever leaving there residences. If you are able to each get an Internet video cameras for your computers you can actually see each other. Nowadays those kinds of things are fairly inexpensive and there are various federal, state and local programs that could help you. Don’t give up if you want to help yourself to choose something more positive this is a real good tried and true way to begin that process.When we take the initiative and realize we are the creators of our realities and do these little things it reaffirms to the universe what you want and need it is like an active prayer, it reaches into the Creator’s toy box and pulls out and brings to you the thing you want that is for highest good which with that intent brings the highest good of all. It brings the real magic that is in us by our birthright as the children of God. What it does, to put it another way, it allows you to connect and have the opportunity to find and share with you fellow human beings common interests and it changes the parameters of the situation and brings in the fertile ground for growth for the positive, breaks down your perception that there are barriers and replaces the barriers with clear smooth avenues to accomplish what just recently you perceived as impossible. This will make the growth of the possibility of loneliness less of a possibility to happen. I’m not saying it will eliminate it altogether at this moment of our existence but it will take it from a high and impossible to get over mountain to in the least a small hill that you face and if enough of us take this perspective it will a some point become a mere speed bump. It is however a step closer for all of us one day to make something that has been highly improbable to eliminate from the human experience to be eliminated within the human experience. All it takes is one person to tell or show one person and it will catch on and once again you can know that YOU ARE A HERO!

      So to recap for you, “You are not your story nor are you your emotions. Become aware and notice the story, the thoughts, the beliefs, the perception of reality that loneliness (or any negative emotions) that you have tied to those stories or beliefs. Release it. Take the moment to pause and take a breath ,and stop and think and decide and become aware change your perception of the reality of the situation, be present and choose the best positive emotional response ( and the list of all the positive is available for you to choose all the time with no exceptions!) based on who you truly are in the present moment. Play with them and discern the best one that serves you highest good and the highest good of all. Then congratulations are in order because you are now on the best and fastest road to becoming a hero in your own right to making loneliness(and if you apply that mind set to sad, despair, etc it will do the same for those) all those painful soul expanding and suffering causing catalyst for humanity evolving cease to exist in this current human experience(at minimize them enough that they are speed bumps instead of impossible to climb over mountains). For sure it is a fact it help you when it is your turn to experience those painful moments, you will be able to move thru them with the greatest of ease and grace and receive blessings for yourself and all humanity.

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Greetings and salutations! One and All! I do hope this blog entry finds you well and happy. It has been a crazy week for me on a personal level as well as the professional level. But I wanted to keep the momentum going with this entry of our blog series on relationships. We have covered in past entries the ideas of co dependence and independence, however, we have never covered the idea of inter-dependence. This is a new term that I created to explain the concept of a partnership. These ideas that I am discussing are uni-sexual and universal. They can be applied to any relationship in existence. The reason that I feel it is necessary to create this new concept is that we are moving towards this with the shifts that are coming. How do we put action to making it “we” and not “me”. How do we take the first steps to becoming community minded again instead of overly independent and isolated?

I do not think that I have all the answers or all the parts but I can see how some of it can work. So I only ask that you read these ideas with an open mind and expand on them if you are so inspired and share those thoughts with the world. Leave a comment. I respond to all legitimate comments. So moving onto the concepts first.

Community to my definition is this: ” A gathering of beings working in harmony and cooperation with one another.”

I see this as the third phase if you will because really it begins within yourself and extends to your immediate friends and families and thus it naturally evolves to a community. There are many communities large and small. It’s not the size that matters in this instance. The idea behind a “community” is to work together in cooperation. Now this sounds really great in theory and in an ideal world that would work. It takes a solid commitment of common thinking to make something like this work. For example. Terminology. People as wonderfully different as they are will look at something and have a totally different take on what it is they see. The same idea holds true when they describe things. How often have you said to another person, “that’s not what I meant!” So definition of terms is imperative to healthy communication.

Cooperation: We have learned over the course of the past few millennia to be competative not cooperative with one another. In this shift which is coming there needs to be a cooperation between ourselves and the world around us. Money or it’s concept no longer serves us. I do not have all of the answers but what I do know is that there is no good reason that there are people who are lacking anything in this world. There is enough resources on this planet to sustain 100 billion people if we all worked together to balance that out.

Courtesy/Manners/Respect- People in this age of “Me”, have forgotten some very basic things in life. That people are people for one and for another, that we should treat others the way we would wish to be treated. With kindness, compassion, understanding, tolerance, respect. Words like ” I’m sorry” or “Thank you” or ” Please” go a long ways. Remembering that coming at someone offensively will cause the reactions of defensive manuevers. That a man’s word is golden, if you say you are going to do something then follow through with it, and if something should come up then communicate that with the person you made the promise to.

Communication: Talking, Texting, Writing letters, Computers, Telephones, Smoke signals. Throughout time man has found many creative ways to communicate what is in one’s head. From hieroglyphs to artwork of all kinds and music and story telling and tapestry to architecture and technology. We have found many ways to communicate with each other because we as human beings are communal creatures. We are social. We enjoy the interaction with others around us. We have lost the gift of mind reading which was our original forms of communication. We lost that ability when we fell into the third dimension. As part of the awakening and remembering, this gift is slowly being restored. Thus the words of Christ, “And the darkness shall come to the light, there will be no more secrets, no more lies…” because if we can read each other’s thoughts we have no way or place to “hide” anything. That is an illusion.

To live as two individuals, loving unconditionally in the present moment and working toward a common good is not an easy combination to find. There is a fine balance in inter-dependence. When you are in a partnership, the advantages are that you are not alone, if one falls short in an area the other can assist in making that up with their strengths. This is different then two people as one. We all have our paths and lessons in life. To release judgments and expectations can be a challenge for many. To release the need to control anything is also a challenge for most people. We do not realize how often we come from a place of needing to control people and situations. We must become cognoscente of these times when we are falling into emotional reactions and old programming. It is helpful if you are involved with another who is of like mind so that you may help each other in the recognition of when you are playing the old tapes. The old saying of ” You are the company you keep” holds some truth to it. For what you surround yourself with or feed into your mind is what is in your heart and eventually comes out of the mouth and it feeds like a perpetual circle. So the way to break free from this cycle is to change the response and change the environment and change the input in general. Surround yourself with things that are going to help you achieve your goal of peace and tranquility on a constant basis. Surrounding yourself with positive people is a start. Listening to soothing music instead of angry music is another place that we can change what we feed our brain. These are all things to help us remember that we are whole and secure within our freedom and do not require dependence but choose to be engaged in an inter-dependent , inter-active relationship.

When I first started to think about this whole idea, I went through the list of friends I had in my life. I really got honest about what it was I was gaining from having these people in my life. How have they served me and were there any there who didn’t serve me. I also had to make a decision about what was a friend to me. Applying the terminology again. I had determined that most of the people in my life were in fact NOT friends, but more acquaintances and business associates. That was a rude awakening for me. I had found that I was being a friend and giving more in the relationships then I was receiving and as a result I found that I was getting drained in my energies on a daily basis. When I made the choice to no longer allow the imbalances to take place, those people were taken out of my life, either by my own hand or by circumstance. I also had to work it as I have said earlier in this article, to just let things and people be what they are.

Here is an example. I recently had a guest who had forgotten to mark their appearance on our show, they subsequently didn’t make the appearance. Now, most people would have been hurt or insulted or upset, and I have to admit that I too would have been counted among those people a year ago. Instead my new reaction now was that all things happen for a reason and there are no accidents. This person had some place else to be and that was totally ok and things worked out in the end and so no harm no foul. This left both people feeling as if it was a win win situation. By choosing a different reaction, the response could have left a much more destructive and negative taste in both mouths. But by understanding that things happen, mistakes can be made and that it all works out in the end as it should anyway, to have that total faith that it will all be ok and that it is meant to be. Even when things do not work out in the way we had hoped it is usually for the better.

Not holding expectations on other people or their actions. Again the need to control. If you limit the universe in outcomes or if you place expectation then you are setting yourself up for instant disappointment. If you just go with the flow and not attach the outcome it usually works out better then you expected in your mind.This is much easier in theory then in practice. It takes great conscious effort to allow others to be and to BE yourself. To detach from the emotional body and to control the thoughts and to come from a place of peace. Too often we give too much of ourselves and things in relationships become unbalanced. There needs to be an exchange of energy on some level in a dualistic reality. In the oneness all just IS.

Can human beings achieve inter-dependence? Hard to say. I believe I have seen couples do this on occasion. To be independent, lead independent lives, but still be together. As ” The Profit” states. Like two pillars holding things up, but standing separately, both eat bread but not of the same loaf. To find that balance where two can be in sanctuary and not in a place of beholden or fear. I believe that we have to come to a place of humility and a willingness to work with others in realizing that many hands make less work, but all parties must be willing to do their part. One’s input doesn’t have to be the same work, but a portion of it.

Some interesting musings on inter-dependence and partnerships. What are your thoughts?

Until next time, in Love n Light and Oneness of Heart,

xoxo

Kimberly


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Greetings and Salutations One and All! It’s been an absolutely fantastic week for me this week and I will be writing more about this in a future blog this week!  But for this entry I would like to focus on our amazing guest for this week’s show! ANTOINE JABBOUR joins the Angel on the show this week to speak on many topics including tolerance and compassion.

Tony is an amazing person and has so much to share with all of you! I cannot wait for you all to meet him! He is M.A. Applied Spiritual Psychology, B.Sc., CHt. Certified Hypnotherapist,

Quantum Touch, Theta Healing DNA I & II, Emotional Freedom Techniques-Advanced, Biopulsar Biofeedback, Certified.

He is an amazing teacher and has his own practice in the Southern California area.

In his own words,

About me and my mission

Regardless of how we look and what language we speak, I believe that we are all ONE, the Human Family. Deep inside of us, we all have the same desires: to feel safe, to Love and be loved, to live a happy and meaningful life, to be healthy, joyful and successful in every way, and to be free.

My background is extensive and rich in education and life experiences: M.A. Applied Spiritual Psychology, B.Sc. Engineering, Certified Hypnotherapist, Quantum Touch, Theta Healing, Emotional Freedom Techniques, and many other modalities in Energy Psychology, Metaphysics, Unexplained Phenomenon, and much more. I have been facilitating personal change and groups for over 13 years; read the Testimonials section to know more about me.

I have woven all this knowledge and experience together, through the meeting of Science and Spirituality, the Physical and Non-Physical, which enables me to relate to people from all backgrounds.

With help from Higher Guidance and the use of the most tecnologically advanced Biofeedback equipment, I facilitate the creation of positive shifts and changes in your life, to assist you in moving forward and creating the life of your dreams. I am committed to your transformation to having more Freedom, Better Health, Happy Relationships, and experience more Joy and Abundance in your life.”

About me and my mission

Regardless of how we look and what language we speak, I believe that we are all ONE, the Human Family. Deep inside of us, we all have the same desires: to feel safe, to Love and be loved, to live a happy and meaningful life, to be healthy, joyful and successful in every way, and to be free.

My background is extensive and rich in education and life experiences: M.A. Applied Spiritual Psychology, B.Sc. Engineering, Certified Hypnotherapist, Quantum Touch, Theta Healing, Emotional Freedom Techniques, and many other modalities in Energy Psychology, Metaphysics, Unexplained Phenomenon, and much more. I have been facilitating personal change and groups for over 13 years; read the Testimonials section to know more about me.

I have woven all this knowledge and experience together, through the meeting of Science and Spirituality, the Physical and Non-Physical, which enables me to relate to people from all backgrounds.

With help from Higher Guidance and the use of the most tecnologically advanced Biofeedback equipment, I facilitate the creation of positive shifts and changes in your life, to assist you in moving forward and creating the life of your dreams. I am committed to your transformation to having more Freedom, Better Health, Happy Relationships, and experience more Joy and Abundance in your life.”

You are powerful beyong Measure

–—Marianne Williamson

it is our light not our darkness that most frightens us

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.

Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.

It is our light not our darkness that most frightens us.

We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous,
talented and fabulous?

Actually, who are you not to be?

You are a child of God.

Your playing small does not serve the world.

There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other

people won’t feel insecure around you.

We were born to make manifest the glory of
God that is within us.

It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone.

And as we let our own light shine,
we unconsciously give other people
permission to do the same.

As we are liberated from our own fear,
Our presence automatically liberates others.

This is just a bit of the information you will find on Tony’s website! www.beautifulmindzone.com
Be sure to tune in this Tuesday Night 9pm MST! www.blogtalkradio.com/illuminationsoflight.

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